I am looking for a local, real time relationship. Still hoping for/ dreaming of...the dream.

Primarily, I am interested in spanking. Otk is preferred. Light bondage is okay too, but the really harsh stuff just freaks me out.

I believe in gender roles, and I love to play in the Dom/sub realm in the bedroom. In real life however, I am and will always be your intellectual equal. I desire discretion, though not total secrecy. I dream of a "normal" relationship with benefits. I would love to say that I am open to play, but in the long run, I'm just not. I have learned through tedious trial and error that this thing that we do is simply far too intimate to be done with an acquaintance.

I have many responsibilities and little time for my own pursuits, but they are important to me.

The right man for me is confident, truly dominant and assertive and clever. I look forward to getting to know him.