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	Let's see. Started to realize something was different in about seventh grade... What am I looking for? Or am I what your looking for? I want a lady, not a little girl who was belligerent half her life funneling beers and blacking out at toga parties. Doesn't mean she can't be/have/had fun, but the ladies out there will know the difference. I won funniest in middle school and HS though you won't know it until we have known each other for a little while. Im a personal trainer and am very interested in being healthy, though I don't judge if other people aren't. I love to spank, tie up, and humiliate girls who love to be spanked, tied up, and you guessed it, humiliated. This is ONLY in the bedroom, though the secret little tiffs in public that only we would understand and share are always fun. We all have our limits and respect/trust is key. In the vanilla world only ex's know about my desires. I live a very normal life for the most part but my desires are enough to ...well land me on this site. I love to travel and explore new places, I'm a music/movie junkie, and I love to go out and eat and drink fine cuisine. I am ridiculously romantic but in no means a mush, I've always been a heartbreaker because I never found someone who could keep me that interested (no one kinky enough!). This site is insanely hard to try to navigate and seems to have the slim amount of actually good people who have a dirty side completely jaded.

1/12/2012 2:29:54 PM

I am into some weird shit but the one thing i can't seem to wrap my head around is financial domination. How is it considered kinky? How is it kinky to want someone to give you money? That just sounds like a made up thing that dumbasses fall for.

Is there even a single female into this or is it just really stupid men?

Just in case

ATTENTION

I am now accepting money from all genders and races. I was opposed to people sending me money before but now am willing and ready to start having you buy me shit. If you are one of the people who gets turned on by giving me a bunch of money and then having me call you pathetic please contact me immediately.

11/29/2011 3:13:07 PM

For all you women out there who complain about about the cock pictures men put up, i'd like to point out I find it equally repulsive when I'm clicking through pictures and suddenly see a gaping vagina. Chill with the double standards son!

11/18/2011 1:40:36 PM

Im starting to finally realize that i am more of a top or even a sadist than a dom. I like to please my partner and spoil them in many ways but also expect the same back.

I feel I lack the indifference or dismissiveness that subs seem to crave from their doms which in turns leads them to do anything to get their doms attention or please him.

I feel I would be best matched in a loving relationship with a girl who has bottom or masochistic tendencies and leave all the sub/dom part of the relationship out the door.

You learn something new every day huh?

8/3/2011 4:22:44 AM

The fact of the matter is I just don't really have the time to spend 3-4 months dating a girl to try and find out if she is a sub / into BDSM. Plus, I feel like I'm leading her on when if it turns out she isn't, I drift away. Im also not going to deny the fact that a vanilla relationship for me is out of the question. I've tried that road and am well aware of the difficulties, guilt, and sadly resentment I felt towards a person unable to fulfill such a deep desire in my life, which leads to misplaced anger.

8/2/2011 11:52:52 AM

I love walking down the mall, or any crowded area for that matter and wondering how many people at that given time are kinksters. Chances are, when I see a group of say 6-7 girls walking in a group, one of them enjoys being spanked. Im aware it would never happen, but some type of bracelet that all kinksters could wear would make this dating thing a WHOLE lot easier.

9/20/2010 8:52:35 PM

I'm having trouble understanding why its so hard to meet any normal people on this site! It's hard enough to try and find a girl in a vanilla setting who's remotely kinky (most seem to think doggy style is kinky), yet its almost easier than on a site where, for the most part, we all share similar interests. Where are the girls who aren't so hellbent on "not being treated like a doormat" that they can either initiate or hold a normal conversation? Where are all the girls who don't feel you have to pass some grammer test or force you to decode some message in their thirteen page memoirs? Where are the girls who are interested in meeting a good looking (can provide pictures), college educated, fun-loving guy who enjoys tying up his partner and spanking her either for fun or for discipline till her butts cherry red?

9/18/2010 5:46:59 PM

Able to provide face pics/proof, show pictures of sessions I've had to those who are interested.

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Age: 19

Kingston, Canada