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I cannot repudiate who I am; a workplace accident, and the ensuing fallout, resulted in
Hetero Male Dominant, 42,  Wisconsin
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 Dominant Male


 6' 1"





Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female


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 Woodworking Expert

I cannot repudiate who I am; a workplace accident, and the ensuing fallout, resulted in my not being able to satisfy the needs of my submissive and eventually forced me to release my pet, whom I loved for over fifteen years.


The vanilla world does not provide the same emotional connection that accompanies a D/s relationship. The time has come to develop an intimacy with someone who knows what she is looking for…..a naturally dominant man to cultivate her need to submit.


I am looking for a long term relationship, possibly permanent, but not one including a full time slave. I desire someone who is much more, with her own uniqueness; thoughts, ideas, values, wants, feelings, ambitions. She needs to maintain a beauty and intelligence to function in public life, where actions in private are often judged unhealthy and perverse. She must be as comfortable wearing a black collar, as she is dressed for a black tie affair, never forgetting our relationship is based in the BDSM culture.


I have always been considered strict, but fair, demanding complete respect and devotion. If you are only interested in a bestial relationship or bedroom entertainment, we will both be wasting our time. There are psychical and cerebral aspects that must accompany the physical pleasures this lifestyle affords. Everyone has family and friends, so appearances are important and must be maintained.


If you possess a natural courtliness and feel you can compliment my dominant nature, I will be pleased to give you the appreciation due.


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Journal Entries:
9/8/2006 11:16:15 AM

She must be somewhere, waiting to be found, but also afraid of what she encounters. Looking for kind and loving, but with the desire for the opposite, it is trust and loyalty that ultimately creates a fulfilling relationship. The physical aspects may seem important, except the psychological countenance is essential.

6/1/2006 7:53:39 PM

It has been just over a month since my pet returned. Though she wants to stay, the time is coming for her to leave. She is happier now, but I cannot care for a pet the way I was once able.

I can see in her eyes that my pet is still lacking what she truly needs and desires.

4/16/2006 9:27:41 PM

The impairments I am forced to endure daily and the knowledge that my discomfort will not lessen, increases my doubt of finding an attachment providing mutual happiness.

I worry I will not be able to provide the creature comforts necessary to maintain a D/s relationship that will satisfy the needs of a submissive into our distant future.

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