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f you can't even be bothered to read my entire profile before you message me, how can I possibly feel as though you have my best interests in mind? If you message me either 1) asking a question that's been answered in my profile or 2) looking for something I've clearly stated I don't want I will un-graciously tell you to fuck off.
I AM looking for a Dom/me. I am NOT looking for an emotional involvement. PLAY ONLY. PLEASE BE LOCAL. I have an emotional connection that I cherish and am simply looking to supplement my physical needs until I can move to England. Please note that Andy is extremely important to me and any Dom/me or play partner must be approved by him prior to play.
I'm looking to make friends in town that I can hang out with in general and learn about kink through open and honest conversation. I don't mean to be rude, but I'm not interested in people over 35. (Like, at all.)
I prefer to spend time with people one on one or in small groups rather than in larger groups or crowds. Cuts way down on drama, and way up on people minding their damn business. Not that I'm especially super private, but if I tell you something, I tell YOU something... not you and everyone you know. I don't do the bar scene, and I don't drink or do any drugs. I respect your choices if you do drink or use drugs, so please reciprocate. I spend a lot of time at the park with my dog. We like to hike. I also help my Mom quite a bit around the house, because she has RA and is no longer able to do many things that she used to.
I just graduated college with my BFA in photography. I'm freeloading at my parents until I can find a job. (So I guess on that note, feel free to contact me about hiring me for photo shoots. But please keep in mind that I just spent years of my life and tons of money on my education, so my rates may not be exactly what you are expecting, though I make every effort to be very fair.)
Let's see... what else? Uhhhh... I'm a fat girl. And I love the shit out of myself. I've noticed that there are a lot of Doms/Masters with photos of themselves in the gym or of flexed muscles, or whatever. I am not so much interested in what your body looks like as I am in your attitude. Personality and trust are huge huge factors of arousal for me, so I want to get to know you before we play! Right now I would love to make friends in the area, even if we are never more than friends. Having people that I can talk to/relate to about kink is something I strongly desire.
Intelligence is something I deeply care about in a partner. I want my partner to be as smart or smarter than me. If I can't trust you to be thoughtful and thorough in your consideration while interacting with me, if I can't trust your judgement, I will not be comfortable completely submitting.
I AM ALLERGIC TO LATEX so I am NOT into bondage tape or latex fetish etc. I literally CANNOT do these things no matter how much I'd like to, so please don't ask.
One last thing I feel I should mention is that I am a sub in BED. There have been a few Doms/Masters who have tried to assert their dominance over me in non-sex situations. This is not going to fly. I respect everyone's choices and preferences, and whatever relationships you have with others are yours to define. Please respect that this is who I am and how I operate. If you try to Dom/me me outside of sex, we are going to have problems.
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