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I am seeking an experienced or in-experienced Sub, Slave, Pet and or Daddy's Girl. I am open to all types of play, personalities and fun but I am seeking a solid loving LTR as the ultimate goal.... I am not into games, I do not like wasting anyone’s time or my own. I am honest, financially secure, have my own businesses and most of all I am real in what I want and who I am. I am very open.. and enjoy all types of personalities, needs and desires. I can treat you like a princess or a total hole kept in a cage, the choice is built into the dynamics of the relationship created...

I am very experienced in training (been in this lifestyle for 22 years) and I am more than willing to train the right sub/slave, pet or even daddy’s girl how to let go and enjoy what is inside of her. I do not believe in public opinion (which means who cares what the neighbors think) But at the same time I do not discuss my life with the neighbors either. I lead a very, VERY private life and have all the free time in the world that I want to teach and train someone.

I am a Dom who understands and takes the time to learn a sub/slave and her inner desires (Not just the sex) Sex is easy to find, I seek real meaning with a mental connection. This lifestyle is more mental than physical, although the physical aspect is also very important but not the leading factor. Your ability to be yourself and learn and accept your inner desires is much more important! I am a patient Dom in training, but do so with a firm hand and stern consistent understanding of where I am leading her. There is more to this lifestyle than just sex, which most men on here (from what I gather) do not understand (sorry guys, but grow up), I do not understand how a man that just met a woman online or in person could have the nerve to tell a woman what to do without taking the time to learn her or to even know her name. To think you can own someone with an email is just plain foolish, childish and immature. Build a foundation. learn and allow growth. The rest will follow.

I am a firm believer in taking my time and really digging deep and learning and understanding her as a woman and as a Slave/Sub/Daddy's Girl/pet, Which is very important to me. I believe that open communication is the key to any and all success in relationships and business. I believe in Daily journals and sitting nightly, discussing the day, training etc… I expect and respect honesty!

How can you please someone if you do not care enough to ask them how they wish to be pleased, starting with mentally.. What do they want versus what you want? What their deepest darkest desires are? You have to look behind the eyes first. Even though I am a Dom I do take consideration of my Sub/Slave into play and everyday life. (Depending on the dynamics of our relationship and how it was built.. even then I must still get to know you and build that level of mutual trust before I will leave marks, bruises or anything of that nature) I do prefer TPE (Total Power Exchange) normal life can appear Vanilla but when the door closes, i expect you to be who you are.. I do not want the representative you give to everyone else. You can lie to the world but never to me!

I need someone who strives for my happiness as I will do hers, it is a mutual thing just wrapped in a different package. Let’s really look at logic for a moment. If a slave is not happy, she will eventually fail and it will be her doms fault that she walked away, because you as a dom failed her and yourself, and you cannot stop her from walking away! If she wants to go, she is gone! The factor of being trapped is a great thing for a lot of slaves and it can be achieved. But it takes a lot of work, trust and understanding. Everyone needs a certain level of happiness even if it is appears to be abusive, loving or total confinement.
No one should judge anyone for anything! But everyone should be themselves and find true happiness. If you lie to yourself or your desires then you are bound to fail.

I do ask for a high level of respect and I also understand that respect is something that is earned in time and by the way you treat your sub/slave/pet and her level of trust and her safety level for you as a master/Dom/partner/owner. I am very protective of my property at all times and do not allow anyone or anything to harm it.
Me: I am almost 5’11, 200lbs husky/muscular build, brown hair, book smart (college degree) and street smart, quick witted, physically and mentally strong, confident, funny but also serious, I do not let people walk on me for any reason, but I do not look for trouble either. I am a very understanding man with a VERY open mind and heart but my kindness is not to be confused for weakness or stupidity of any kind. I have a stern attitude in life and do believe in being the man of the house, I do tend to intimidate people who do not know me because of the way I carry myself. I am confident, can be cocky, but also a very understanding , loving man. I care about causes such as Child Development, Homelessness, Animals and much more. I prefer a 1950’s household with a modern day twist. I have a great imagination and life is never boring around me. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I can be the life of the party or the man in the corner watching and waiting. I am not into switching roles so please do not ask. I am 100% man and will stay that way.
I do NOT judge others for their likes or dislikes and I will not allow Judgement in my presence. Once a person learns how not to judge another or a situation then and only then can they really open their own eyes in respect to their own happiness and the trials of life.
I do not cyber play and will not train you online, we can talk online as long as it takes for us both to decide on taking the next step, but I will not have an online relationship. I seek real time, life is too short for internet pretend! I am very spontaneous, love to travel and see new places and experience new things. I enjoy the outdoors from the mountains to the beaches and everything in between. Not really into Sports, but I am active. Yes, I am a man who does not like sports..lol... Some will be happy to see that I am sure.

If you are interested in talking further please feel free to send me an email. I would enjoy the opportunity to make a new friend in the lifestyle or maybe even more..... You never know what the future may hold!

I do have pictures upon request. Simply ask and I will email you some but I must have seen yours first. I do own my own business so privacy is a huge thing with me. If you do not have a photo on your profile please send me one when contacting me and I will gladly reply with some in return. Looks are not very important to me, there must be some type of interest in looks of course, but what is really important to me is your abilities to serve and be yourself. Plus I am not your normal man and can find beauty in almost anyone. Eyes, hair, mind, soul etc... Looks are NOT what makes the world or relationship go round. You can have the best sex ever and the friendship is not there or you can have the best friendship but the sex sucks, eventually they will both fail! You have to create the whole package...

Don't be shy... say hi! I look forward to hearing from you.
QueenSteph01
 
 Age: 30
  Maryland