Let's be absolutely clear about our needs. I am a Connecticut Male Dominant in his 50's. You are a discrete, intelligent, motivated woman who also wants to experience BDSM fully, and to develop a committed relationship. We can provide what the other desires.

I am a moderate in terms of pain but intense in the experience. I will allow you to explore what you crave - give you new experiences - and build on these to to keep you fresh and eager. Restraint, vulnerability, spanking, moderate strapping/flogging, wax, violet wand, ice, nipple restraint...all are possibilites with the right submissive.

If we are compatible, I will focus intently on what you need to experience what you crave. I will teach you. I will challenge you. I will inspire you - both in BDSM and in other aspects of your life. Most important, I will take the time to establish the sense of security and trust you need to feel safe in my arms.

My Dominance can be intense beyond the obvious kink some women seek, for the erotic zone between your ears is much more important than the one between your legs. I will teach you in the most fundamental way that a whisper can be much more powerful than a whip.

If you are considering BDSM for the first time...I can take you there. If you desire intense sessions and have unfulfilled fantasies...I can take you there. If you thrill from being dominated discreetly in public places...I can take you there. I am very creative...I make fantasies real...I can take you there and beyond.

On a personal note, I am a professional businessman, educated but easygoing. I enjoy music, the outdoors, especially hiking and beachcombing. I ski deep powder at high altitudes. I enjoy good food and wine...I am an accomplished cook, and I love good dinner conversation.

You should be strong, capable, and confident...in control in the vanilla world. Your submission should provide enormous release, and you should understand that stripping away clothes and vanilla roles can be VERY exciting.

You should hunger for the sensual intensity that comes from submission...giving up control...being positioned and instructed in submissive positions...not knowing what will happen next...feeling the presence of your strong hungering Dominant.

A spanking should be exciting to you. You should crave the sensual rush of pain as pleasure and the physical heat of a spanked ass presented against the cool night air. I prefer a scarlet ass presented to me so that I might take my pleasure in any way I choose.

If you are the right woman - you seek an intelligent, strong, caring, and intense Dominant. You wish to be respected as an equal...yet you wish to be completely and totally taken...with no turning back.

You MUST be mature, eager, willing to explore, relatively attractive, and in good shape. You should be intelligent, fun-loving, and have your life in order. You should desire the hand of a mature Dominant - and you should have manners.

I want only one submissive - discrete and real. Appreciate our constraints but revel in the possibilities. I can't say this more emphatically - if you are spamming, playing around, etc. - do NOT waste my time.

Now - take the chance - write.