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| Seeking a dominant male bondage enthusiast requiring regular oral service from a submissive married man (my husband).
I am a dominant married woman in a female-led relationship with my slave husband. He is fully submissive to me, and outside of work does nothing whatsoever without my permission (this is not to say he has no free time or social life, it's just that I'm the cruise director and absolutely everything goes through me). He is helpless by design, no access to our financial resources, no free access to our cars, etc. We have been experimenting with chastity for more than two years - at this point he is wearing his chastity belt the majority of the time. I am incredibly happy with his servile nature under this arrangement. His sexual access to me has been increasingly limited, and I'm looking to take this a step further and (consensually) provide him with a new (and eventually his sole) sexual outlet.
I'm looking for a dominant man (or men) for whom my husband can regularly provide oral service while well-bound and helpless. Ideally, I would like to tie his level of service into his chastity regimen, e.g. rather than him spending a specific amount of time in chastity before (brief) release, sentencing him to giving a specific number of blowjobs before he gets release. Rather than adding time when he fails in my home, I add to the blowjob count. Thus I'm hoping to find someone who is both local and requires frequent oral service.
I have a couple of specific wants here. My husband is turned on by heavy and long-term bondage, and I'd like to couple his experiencing bondage to his servicing men so eventually he directly associates oral service of men with his own sexual desires. Thus, while he is with you I'd like him bound and helpless at all times, a bare minimum hands tied/locked behind his back, but more is always good. Secondly, I don't want him forming a normal relationship with the person he serves - I want him either gagged or prohibited (on penalty of increased chastity) from speaking the entire time he's with you. You can talk to him all you want, but it is and remains entirely one-sided - his relationship with you is as your bitch and that's it. You negotiate with me, and outside of him initially making clear to you he consents to this, he should not be speaking with you (and should he try I can guarantee he will spend what seems an eternity in chastity).
I am flexible as to how and when he provides service. Initially I want to be there for the first few occasions - at our home. After that, I'm mostly flexible and I do not need to be there. His service to me always comes first, but if I have no use for him he gets no choice when, where, or how long he serves. He can stop over before or after work, and frankly I'm okay with him being kept overnight or over an occasional weekend as well - it would give him the opportunity to significantly work off his chastity sentence and provide me with alone time and privacy so I can get laid. Basically, you clear the time and duration with me and he's yours. His brief releases from chastity - ideally I'd like his awarded orgasms to be, you guessed it, while orally serving a man.
At home my husband is typically in drag now, and while he's certainly too tall to pass I think he looks reasonably good in a dress with a full face of makeup. He also is a handsome (if not a bit feminine), fit, thin man. He can serve you either as a man or in drag, I have no preference right now and he gets no say. Frankly, my long-term goal for him, and not so far away, is for him to fully transition and be my stay at home wife, so a bonus to start now. About him: tall, short brown hair, no body hair, fit (more of a runner's body, not a gym body), 6" and cut (but you will not see it as it's under a neosteel).
I don't care what you look like or how old you are. What I do care about is that you have a high sex drive, you are experienced with bondage, that you are looking for ongoing service, that you are not looking for a relationship, and that you are local and relatively accessible. Sadistic and experienced with administering pain is a plus. We are relatively new to the area but I am very experienced and know what I'm looking for. You will be meeting with me in person before anything happens with my husband.
This is not forced, this is fully consensual. We are not cheating on each other, we have agreed to this. We both entered our somewhat unusual relationship and marriage with a full understanding of my long-term vision for our relationship and his life under me, and while we're not that close we are slowly working our way there. This is a small baby step for him, one that I will particularly enjoy having him take. While he is and will remain fully unaware and have no control over the mechanics/specifics/frequency of what will be happening, he has consented to provide oral (and eventually perhaps anal) service to a man of my choice. He has agreed to do this while in bondage. If he lets you (or me) bind him he will be explicitly consenting to serve and will finish what he and I have committed to.
While I certainly have a vision for this moving forward, I reserve the right to change things as needed to keep my relationship and marriage working. I may not be sexually attracted or interested in my husband now or men in general, but I nonetheless love him and cherish his devotion, service, company, and willingness to give me what I've always wanted, and want both our lives to be satisfying. Despite the difference in status in our relationship, we do discuss things like any other couple, and while I will not let him make decisions regarding our life together I do absolutely take his input into account and tweak things accordingly. Since I was very young, I have always dreamed of taking a straight man and turning him into a woman, and he is willing to fulfill my wish because I am able to meet his own unusual needs. In order to take him where I ultimately long to take him, I require his absolute trust and will not violate it.
While I shouldn't have to say this, I've been on this website before some time ago (finding my husband here!) and realize I indeed need to - there will be NO sexual contact with me. I do not submit to anyone, and am not interested in a sexual relationship with my husband's partner or men in general. I will negotiate with you, okay my husband serving you, and on occasion I will be there to make sure he's okay (and adding more blowjobs to his chastity sentence), but I will not be involved.
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