I am looking for a male who would like to participate in providing pleasure for a female. This female loves to be pleased, but also promises pleasure for those she participates and is with. I love slow and sensual and then hard and fast and a combination of both. The erotic part is as the female...I have a small amount of control in the speed if that is how I choose to participate. I take care of people all day, I see things that others never want to see, so for me to have someone who wants to be passionate, but take the lead is amazing. To lay back and take what is given, or to become so involved in the experience that I can leave everything else behind.... Are you the person that can do that? Sometimes it just requires that I be taken full advantage of and give all the energy and emotion I have left to the person I am with...