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I will never make someone call me "Sir," but will appreciate it when they do.
I've been single in the lifestyle for a while now. I would say that a good part of that is by choice, as the social drama in the public scene is really way too much for me to worry about being new the group and trolling around looking for a partner.
That being said, I feel the need to actively seek now.
I am a switch, but I am only looking for a sub or switch at this time.
I am not particularly into 24/7 lifestyle relationships. I want a significant other to care for, and it would be very very nice for her to be someone I can play with when the mood strikes us. I am looking for a good human that I enjoy being with, not a slave for me to use.
I prefer pain play - sensations and reactions - over dominance, humiliation and abuse (but I do enjoy some dominance). I enjoy playing publicly, so I would prefer someone who either isn't shy, or would be willing to push that line.
I drink, I smoke. I don't do drugs, but have friends that do.
Oh, and as you can probably tell, I could use some better pictures. I'd be open to talking to anyone that would want to help with that, as well.
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I've been feeling more and more desire to top lately. I still have certain bottom urges, but I find myself more aroused by thoughts of topping.
Along with this is, perhaps, a growing sense of being more of a "Dom" than just a Top, in that certain parts of power exchange and control are becoming more appealing.
I read about someone wanting to be a sex slave - whored out by her Master at his whim. A couple of months ago, I don't know that this would have had any appeal to me. But now, after reading that profile, I began to fantasize about a girl like that and the fun that she could be.
I even got a big kick out of someone just wanting to be restrained and tickled for a couple of hours.
Ahhh, evolution. . .
The downside to all of this is that vanilla encounters are losing their appeal more and more. Not being in a relationship right now, I have a vanilla friend with benefits. But whereas a few months ago I would have taken a lot of joy in that, today it doesn't seem to float my boat.
I'm not saying its a chore, but it certainly isn't something that I'm eager to keep pursuing.
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| Age: 30 |
| Charlotte,
North Carolina |
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