Yesterday afternoon i met a guy from here.  He seemed nice in our exchanges, great voice with interesting and engaging things to say.  Met at a local coffee shop.  Didn't even know it was him when he walked in.....

Do not send fake/decades old photos if you plan to meet someone.  In this day and age there is absolutely no excuse for not having an up to date photo.  Sending a fake pic or old pic shows that a) you obviously lie

                                  b) are completely insecure about yourself

                                  c) can't be trusted

                                  d) you're kinda stupid

So incase you were wondering, that makes you not so interesting to be any kind of person in my life.  Not brain surgery folks.......