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Looking for someone who knows in her heart she is a slave and needs to be owned, controlled and to completely dedicate herself to the happiness of another. ? Know the difference between a sub and a slave. Not interested in self-serving subs who approach with a list of dos and don'ts, wills and won'ts. I am open to discussing your limits but ideally you will have none which you aren't at least open to exploring in the long term if I desire it. ? In general I am kind, compassionate and fair. You will not see this from me often in our relationship though. I am only interested in a completely one-sided life-long relationship built around TOTAL power exchange. Complete ownership. You will willingly hand over your body, mind and soul to me in your entirety. ? I am not interested in pain sluts, or indeed sluts in general. I don't take pleasure in hurting someone for the sake of it, and I don't like to share my most precious possessions. You will be cared for (in my own unique way), but it is important you do not have expectations of being 'ordered' into gang bangs or getting beaten to a bloody pulp. ? Do not confuse that with being 'easy'. I can be extreme. I will push your boundaries and challenge you often. I will control absolutely anything about you that I desire. Be someone who embraces challenges and wants to rise above them to please me. You must be prepared to do things you could not normally imagine doing, submitting to things that make you uncomfortable, scared, disgusted, ashamed... be prepared to be completely broken emotionally and put back together into the true slave you know you are destined to become. ? My only firm limits are: nothing involving children, no serious injury (permanent or otherwise) and nothing involving other people in any way without their express consent. I also will never betray your trust or in any way jeopardise your relationships with your friends, family or coworkers. Everything else is fair game. ? Honesty and trust are paramount. I will not lie to or deceive you at any time. I expect the same in return. I take this very seriously. If you are someone prone to constant white lies, half-truths or "what they don't know won't hurt them" you will not survive long with me. ? I want someone who is otherwise balanced. Interesting. Has passions outside of BDSM. I will nurture you as a person and encourage your other interests as long as they don't conflict with or contradict my own. Intelligence and creativity will always attract my attention, and I would like to be able to at least look up to you in that regard even though I will look down on you in virtually every other way. ? This is not a game. If you approach me, it should be because in your heart you know you need this. You long to be controlled, shaped, manipulated, molded into the perfect life partner for a superior man. Not because you have a checklist of kinks you want to explore, but because you have a deep psychological need for complete submission and you desire to likewise satisfy my own need for control and dominance. ? If you approach me, keep in mind we are just two people talking. Do not call me 'Master', 'Sir' or anything along those lines. You can just address me as "J" to start. Be yourself. If I like you and eventually choose to own you, there will be plenty of time to correct your behaviour and mannerisms when you are my property. ? If you want to impress me, answer the following somewhere in your introduction:
  • do you consider yourself a 'sub' or 'slave'? What does it mean to you?
  • describe your existing experience if any, otherwise describe how your interest developed and how you came your current point of contacting me
  • what do you do with your life at the moment? Work, study etc. Do you have any direction or aspirations?
  • what are your interests outside of BDSM?
  • what are your interests INSIDE of BDSM? If you do have any particular fetishes or kinks that you are interested in or particularly experienced with, feel free to describe them. It is no guarantee that they will ever be included but it is good to know.
  • give me a list of your limits. Also include if they are soft limits (you would prefer not to, but accept if they are pushed) or hard limits (absolutely no way ever)
  • what are your NEEDS from a BDSM relationship?
  • you MUST include a clear picture of yourself holding a piece of paper with "omnipotently" and today's date written on it
If these simple tasks are too much effort for you, you have no hope of ever being satisfactory to me. ? Experience not required but the correct mindset is paramount. Do not be afraid to approach me if you are a beginner. If not in the EU or very near to, be prepared to relocate or do not contact me. Height, weight, ethnicity etc all completely irrelevant. Older is fine but be capable of seriously accepting a much younger man as your owner. Younger is fine but if under 25 in particular, be prepared to prove why you are exceptionally mature and why I should take you seriously. I am primarily only interested in women however would consider an EXCEPTIONAL male or transgender under the right circumstances, but be aware that I am not bisexual before applying.
Laurie38
 
 Age: 23
 London, United Kingdom