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Serious, masculine, sane, single, athletic, educated, nonsmoker, no STD's, faithful to You. This is my real age. Would rather share thoughts directly. Photos available on request. i can supply references from a group of Dominant Women who know me personally. i think they will attest to my sincerity, honesty and stability. As a part time member of a Femdom/male slave group, i'm able to see and talk with couples and triads who are in stable, longterm relationships or marriages. When people think of Femdom LTR's, many imagine a situation in which the Woman has to look and act a certain way all the time. Actually, in the successful ones, both partners - the Woman and the man - are working as a team toward the same goal: a Femdom/male slave relationship that is loving and stable. They often 'brainstorm' together to overcome any obstacles to deeper male submission or greater Female dominance.
Sex, if any or what form it will take, is entirely up to the Woman. Chastity devices, though a major hassle to fit correctly, are a common feature in these relationships. These relationships cover the spectrum from vanilla to very kinky. Basically, the Woman gets to indulge in Her deepest, darkest fantasies with a man who is trustworthy and who loves Her. A man enters into a Femdom LTR or marriage and begins to truly fall in love. he might be placed in chastity. he starts aching for his Beloved. A husband head over heels in love and sexually aching for the Wife. Isn't that the ideal of even vanilla marriages or LTR's? Ideally, when a less-dominant man submits to a more-dominant Woman it's an act of love. he'd rather surrender his freedom than not be part of Her life or be in a relationship with Her in which there's a constant tug of war. Secondly, submitting doesn't come naturally for most men and by submitting each time they make it slightly easier the next time to live a submissive life going forward.
Males i've seen in the longer lasting Femdom relationships appear to be extremely monogamous and faithful. The Women have more options regarding sexuality and permanently marking Their mates, but that doesn't mean that they all do it. The males in all the Femdom LTR's or marriages i've seen should realize that in all likelihood the Women will play with other available men during play parties. Some Women keep their slaves for themselves and others allow other Women to play with them. i didn't see any 'golden nectar' drinking or sexual 'fooling around' myself, but i did hear that some Women would avail themselves of this option maybe once or twice in order to elicit from the male the deepest level of ego surrender.
The slaves combine pure love with deep lust for the Women and appear "ruined" for any other Female or any other type of Female. Power struggles are set aside and more productive strategies are employed. In vanilla settings the couples act no differently than other couples except the guys are a lot nicer to their Partners than most husbands or boyfriends. The natural selfishness of the men has been trained away and their instincts now are turned toward serving the Women.

It's my observation that Women in stable, settled Femdom/malesub LTR's or marriages seem more relaxed and confident than unattached Women. They don't posture, strut , pose or try to impress. Many men submit for wonderful reasons: the chance to be kind, gentle, loving and nice to a Woman you care about, a furtive glance at Her bottom as She walks away in Her stilettos as you kneel there chained, the approva

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tinyerica
 
 Age: 49
 Healdsburg, California