I have had to do some clarification on my profile. This will be another way of weeding out the wheat from the chaff.

Just to clarify even further: "Hard Limit" means absolutely no way, no how, not going to happen. Ever. Never Ever Ever. Not for any reason whatsoever. If a meteor were heading to Earth, and doing anything on the Hard Limit list meant the survival of the world as we know it, I am afraid we would all have to just explode.

"Hates" is similar although not as strong. In the above situation, I would do something on the Hates list and save the world, but I wouldn't be happy about it. If we were in a relationship, and you insisted on these things, it would more than likely be the end of that relationship.

I hope this helps to explain a little more about who I am. I thought I had been very clear on that before now, but seems I was not.

Oh, and yes. It is possible to "Live For" spanking and still have "Ass Play" as a Hard Limit.

If you are a submissive, or a switch, that's fine. But that's not what I am seeking. I seek someone who is dominant by nature. There are plenty of women here who are interested in submissives, slaves and switches. Perhaps you would have more luck if you sent messages to someone who states that they are looking for that, instead of someone who has stated she is NOT looking for that.

No, I do not want to be added to your "circle of friends". I reject ALL requests. I am not here to make you look more popular.

If you send me a message that says "hi how are you?", "add me, i'm (insert screenname here) on yahoo", "r u interested in a chat?" or (my personal favorite) "i love your pic! you're really hot!"  then I KNOW you haven't read my profile and are just cut-and-pasting to every girl you can.

Please, if you really are interested in getting to know me, then send me a message with some substance. Tell me about yourself. Ask me questions. It's called conversation.

It looks like I need to point out that I am looking for a Long-Term Relationship, ultimately. I am not looking for a play partner or a one-night-stand.

I want a "steady boyfriend" at first, who understands me and what I am looking for, who eventually will want to make our relationship more permanent.

Also, I guess I thought that it went without saying but I really am looking for someone who is older than myself, or at least my own age. If you aren't old enough to tell me where you were when they landed on the moon, then you were probably not raised in a time or an environment where corporal discipline was the norm and accepted.