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Never had anything more than vanilla relationships, but I've known for a long time that vanilla isn't really my favourite flavor. I'm interested in a ltr with a sane, secure, sensual, woman - someone who will appreciate my submission, but also someone who wants a fun & active relationship both within & beyond the bdsm aspects. I like to read, sail, golf, walk, talk.  Not a bad cook, no gourmet, but no slouch.   Good sense of humour.  Gentle, but no doormat; nor am I insecure. I'm a respected and reasonably well compensated professional - I seriously doubt my co-workers suspect my submissive side.

I'm definitely not a pain freak.  If that's your thing, good luck to you, but I'm not what you're seeking.  And corner time or being caged for hours on end aren't in my future either - life's too short for that.

Also - truth in adverstising alert - if size matters, I'm not your guy either.  Just to clarify - everything's fully functional - no Viagra required yet.  It's only that the package is quite modest.  I realize this will be a stopper for many, but we're not going to have the kind of relationship where I could hide that fact for long - ha ha. 

I'd be an interesting companion in public and behind closed doors.  Art, politics, music, literature - name your topic and I'm ready to discuss.

I'm not really into public displays of D/s, but if you are comfortable being open with a select few friends, I'd have no issue serving in their presence.  If you prefer to keep things between us, even better. 

I look like a regular citizen in jeans and sports jacket - there's no reason anyone'd suspect you have me shaved, pantied and suitably restrained, but I'll always know who's in control.  LOL.

I'm not particularly looking for any size/race/whatever - not desperately seeking Barbie.... 
As to age, someone who knows the lyrics to the same songs I do would be nice, but compatibility is more important that years. 

While some will no doubt find it presumptuous that a submissive should express his interests, I think that relationships of any sort work best when the parties share at least some common ground. Please don't look on any of this as anything more than an attempt to establish that. 

Me naked - you clothed.  This sets the boundaries nicely, don't you think?  No need for leather and chains, though if you collar and leash me, I'll adore you.

Kneeling naked at your feet - the first time I do this will, without doubt, be the most intense sensual experience of my life.

Why?

Because you will be the first to have seen into this previously hidden side of me.  You will truly know me.

Obedience training - mold me, transform me, teach me to respond to subtle looks and signals.  Make an impression on me if I fail you.

I am still on my knees... you turn your back to me and bend slightly at the waist. Recognizing that unspoken command, I lift your skirt and gently slip down your panties... You step out, spread your legs... again I know my duty...

I think I could have a panty fetish.  Well no, not a fetish, an interest.  I've never actually worn a pair, but I think I'd find it quite erotic.  But, it would really only be truly fulfilling if I wear them to please you.  It's your command over such intimacies that I'd find compelling. 

Other than that, I've got no particular cross-dressing desires, though I suspect I'd make a reasonably fetching slut if you are into that sort thing. 

Still, I'm not a sissy type, so if that's important, we aren't a match.

If you enjoy enforced chastity and orgasm control, I quite agree that anticipation makes the male most attentive and responsive to his Domme's desires. 

Tied and teased to the brink, but never quite let over.  You've trained me not to cross that final, exquisite line until you allow - oh, what a delicate agony you instill in me.

Then, you smile, is that a touch of sadness? Or is it gentle cruelty? You dangle the restraint in front of me.  No release this day.  But there's always hope. As you lock me away, you whisper, "Sorry pet, maybe tomorrow.  Then you mount my face and reap the pleasures of the frenzied lust you've sown. 
But again, moderation is the key for me - I'm not a good candidate for long term denial.  Use it or lose it comes into play here :-)
I will strive to please you always of course. But even when you allow my release, perhaps, some times, you'll introduce a devious (delicious?) element of risk.

Will you make me win my privilege - throwing a pair of dice?  

Snake eyes, Box Cars, any double I'm rewarded.  Perhaps you'll stroke me, perhaps you'll have me go solo - your choice, of course. 

Roll 3, you take me from behind.Roll 4, I lick your lovely ass, but the cock cage remains locked, sigh... 

But enough of my musings.

In the end, yours is the will, yours is the way. Where you choose to lead, I must follow.

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wraithuncollared
 
 Age: 71
 Haverhill, Massachusetts