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obsidia

~I'm a Nouveau Fusion bellydancer~


I am incredibly happy, hyper at times and always giggly. I am the super proud mom of one amazing, special little boy. I have a very active life between my schedule and my son's activities BUT I would DEEPLY love to find a someone to share friendship, intimacy and laughter with. Someone who understands I can offer much, and is looking for the long term.

The person I seek is a hopeless romantic; spontaneous and outgoing; smart, witty, appreciates tattoos and piercings, loves kids and is family oriented(but okay with the idea that I don't want to HAVE any more kids), wants to travel and create adventures with their woman. This person appreciates the “finer” things in life: art, museums, theater, history, that can sit with me and discuss with passion and conviction their thoughts and ideals.
I want someone who is done with the bar scene. They likes to occasionally go out dancing but is just as happy at home, snuggling on the couch watching a movie, or going out with friends for food, wine and great conversation because that is where I am in life.
This person will be spontaneously romantic-call me just to hear my voice, bring me chocolate chip cookies when I'm blue and love hearing my laugh!
Oh, and they HOPEFULLY like PIRATES (I have a thing for pirates)!!!

Okay, and they'll be DOMINANT...not Sadistic but be able to take me, a fairly blank canvas, and create a work of art for our mutual pleasure.

I'm 35,a single mom of an amazing 8 yr old son, artist and part time tribal fusion bellydancer( more than a hobby-more like a part time obsession!). I work during the day as an Underwriter in Health insurance. I'm witty, sarcastic, very intellectual, off beat and occasionally morbid sense of humor with an affinity for Chick Fil A sweet tea and freshly baked, ooey gooey chocolate chip cookies.
I enjoy cooking, not quite at the Iron Chef level but I know my way around a kitchen and I'm not a health freak-don’t work out constantly, dance/do yoga to stay in shape (I'm in decent shape, like most people, I could stand to get into BETTER shape but I don’t sweat it too greatly. I love my body as it is). I have 5 tattoos (and counting) and my ears are stretched to a 0g.

What would my friends say about me? I'm loyal, trustworthy, empathetic, sardonic, sometimes ironic, hyper, happy-go-lucky, self loving, self motivating, occasionally mischievous and only addicted to a few TV shows-I don't need to spend HOURS as a couch potato. I am a voracious reader and enjoy curling up with a book to relax-I just finished "The Book of Courtesans-A catalouge of Their Virtues" which was intruging and a brilliant read. What else should people know about me? I'm a faerie in disguise ~hee hee~ with a sweet and sunny disposition (aka a perky Goth) and I have a big/loyal heart.

What upsets me?
Dishonesty, people who won't be completely open from the start, evasiveness, non communication, people who are EXTREMELY judgemental without having all of the facts, bad drivers.When I get angry I generally cry.

Sweetiegrliegrl
 
 Age: 46
  Missouri