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Awhile ago a friend counseled me to give up my search for a 'dominant woman' and concentrate on developing a relationship with someone I found attractive and had chemistry with; reasoning that whomever I partner with will end up taking control of our relationship because - as he put it - "that's what women do." He's probably right. It's not that I haven't enjoyed - or thrived - inrelationships with non-dominant women - I have; I just know that my next - and hopefully last romantic partnership - will be one where I am free to openly express myself as the submissive man I am to one woman who is as excited about receiving my gift of obedienceas I am in offering it; not simply tolerant of my innate need to bow to her authority and demonstrate deference to women.
Submissive men are a relationship choice [dominant] women make - we're not compromise candidates. I know I'm biased, but I think submissive men, like me, are a quality catch: men who want toplease, serve and obey their partner on their terms - and not just in the bedroom- what woman wouldn't want that? My expectation isn't finding someone who necessarily defines herself as a "dominant woman" as much as it is to find someone who is open-minded about exploring the possibilities of what a Femdom relationship can be with me. I want a partner who tells me that my submission to her enhances my standing with her. This should be a win-win for both of us. My needs met by her; her needs met by me. I know there are many unhappy submissive-identified men struggling in relationships with women who have no interest in taking the lead with their man.
Life is short and I am fortunate to know who I am. I long fought my innate submissive tendencies because I couldn't come to terms withmy natural need to defer to women. But over the years, as I've grown, I've come to see my submission not only as a gift but one worth sharing with one worthy appreciative woman. Denying who I am or hiding it just won't work for me. I am submissive proud.
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