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| UPDATE, AUGUST 17, 2014: No longer seeking a partner and found what I'm looking for. A sincere thank you to all the sincere woman who messaged me (please read my last journal entry). Good luck finding your match.
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Fun-loving, down-to-earth white-collar type, husky but with a fit, muscular build. I'm seeking an assertive fellow kinky woman for fun, safe play, be it if she's more submissive or dominant. I'm single and vanilla appearing to the outside world, but love intense, intimate play with a like-minded woman. This is but one aspect of me--and not the defining characteristic--and seeking a woman that this is the same in make-up as well. If you are more sub but looking for a man that understands that this doesn't mean or make you "weak" and looking to explore in a safe way, then I we're probably a good match. If you are more dom or looking to explore that more and let yourself go with a man that isn't afraid of a woman holding the proverbial reins and will be just an enthralled as you, then we'd also make a good match too. I'm looking for something less causal and open and honest. I'm not looking for a pro-domme or some unrealistic fantasy but a real woman, the kind that would appear quite vanilla to the outside world but who is a kinky little freak inside and wanting to explore it in a trusted and open, safe way--and who is a real person both with herself and others. I'm sincere and believe that there are such women out there, even on a site like this. Let's see if we can spark a fire.
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No longer seeking and currently in an off-line relationship with a fellow like-minded woman. I wish to thank the sincere people that messaged me, and if I have not gotten back to you, my apologies. Just to address some of the cynicism on here about not being able to find someone that is "real" or not a "prostitute," I can attest this is not true. There are genuine people on here looking for something real as you are. Just be yourself and stick to what you want. To be sure there are a lot of scammers on here as well as keyboard masturbators and financial parasites, but so what? You have to be genuinely stupid to not see through them. For me, BDSM is a good portion of my sexual inclination, but neither the only thing nor the majority of my sexual make-up even for that matter let alone my life. Life is far more bigger than that and people are in this for a host of reasons, and to be sure because of unhealthy spiritual ones. Nor is this the only site that you can find a kinky minded partner. So be open minded but smart about who you give your time too. Good luck and to those sincere and genuine in heart, man and woman alike, best wishes in finding what you seek.
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Thanks to the many great responses and sincere women out there. In the past few days I have gotten many messages and plan to respond back to each one. Please be patient and I appreciate the time you put in your responses and wish to be as thoughtful in my reply back to you. |
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| Age: 40 |
| Colorado Springs,
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