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If you enjoy reading mundane boilerplate from men that love movies, music, and spending time with friends, then please move on, as I'm not your guy. :] I'm a daddy dom, looking for a sub. Maybe that's you. You should be excited to know that I'm both loving and dark. I'm gentle with a devoted and deserving sub, and demanding when meeting my needs with her. I'll encourage you to be a better person and reach your goals, but will also push your limits so that pride won't stand between us. I seek a devoted sub that craves guidance, encouragement, and approval. She should enjoy rough sex with sweet afterwards for good girls. Her pleasure should be the pleasure of others, and she will be rewarded with praise and appreciation. She should want this dynamic between us 24X7, even though play will be in private. She should want to do these things out of a desire to please and serve. If she authentically does, then she'll be appreciated, valued, and given enough approval and affection so that she is sure that she is needed, that she is taken/owned, and so she will know that she is exactly what is expected of her. I'm a stable and confident guy with a life that is under my control. I own my home, and have meaningful work that deeply fascinates me, so don't need anyone else's money or support. I've never been married, nor do I have exes hanging around, or children. My personal and work lives are great, and I love what I do. Part of what I am professionally is an instructor, and I love helping others grow and bringing out their best. I love new experiences and challenges. I have everything that I need in my life except the right sort of woman. I've had some D/S relationships in the past, and, while distance and life situations got in the way, they were incredible. I've decided that vanilla women are inferior, and will never result in the same sort of profound connection and passion that comes from such dramatic exchanges of trust and control. You... Yes, you, the one that I'm looking for. Your age and looks aren't important to me, so long as you are clean and respect yourself and body. If I wanted some certain body type or appearance, there are women enough in the world for that. What is profoundly important to me is how you feel and act. You should be able to reasonably deal with your life, but desire this sort of relationship to provide you with a safe place. You should also be submissive, as I have no desire for a switch. So that we'll get along outside of our emotional/sexual needs, you must be familiar with more in the world than pop culture. You must be able to recognize a metaphor or allusion that depends on knowledge of a deeper level than prime time TV, otherwise, my humor and witticisms will be lost on you. *wink* Although I love spending time together with my special someone, you must have a hobby or an art, so that you can independently entertain yourself. Finally, you should be willing to chat online for a while before anything happens in the real world. I have made up my mind as to what I want, and I intend to take as much time as is required to be sure that we are exactly what we both need. If we click, we can meet when we've built some trust. If we don't, then having close friendships with people are great, also. When you write, don't worry about sending pics. If things look like they're going somewhere, then we'll do that eventually. If your head isn't right, though, it doesn't matter how you look, and I'd rather not be considering it.
MrsAlinda
 
 Age: 28
 Rotterdam, Netherlands