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Took me a long time to figure out that this is the lifestyle I like and makes me happy. I realize this is a lifestyle choice and not just kink. I'm working on my profile slowly as I read more profiles to really articulate what it is that I want and I am searching for. I'll update as I read things and say, "Yeah, that's it... Well put!" As for now, I'm still very new to this. I can say that I have a dominate personality. I'm pretty mellow and go with the flow on the outside, but that's when things are heading in the direction I like. To the outside world I treat a woman like a woman should be treated. i.e. I open doors. But I feel that there is a natural order to things and the male is suppose to be the dominate/protector, and the woman the submissive/care giver. So, until I can articulate the aspects of this side of me to the you the reader, what I will say is this... I want all the usual things out of a relationship. I'd like mutual interest, physical attraction, common goals, and of course an open and explorative sex life. We are all on here for the same reason, our sexual interest lies outside the norm. No need to really talk about it as you can look at my profile and get a pretty good idea as well as me viewing yours. So, that aside, I'd like to elaborate a little about what I might write on a traditional dating site. I have no need for materialism. My joy comes from moments in life, not things. I take care of my body and care about my physical appearance. My desire is to live a more self-suffficient style. I take great pride in my gardening skills. I like to read and write. A good conversation with someone, not necessarily intellectual, but deep and introspective is a turn on... Discussing the dark nature of our exsistence. I love the cerebral connection of when someone can get into my head. "I need the darkness, someone please cut the lights." Bonus if you can name the lyrics. I borrowed this from Sweetnesss71, who in turn borrowed it from: From ALuvingDom:
"Whats is "DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION?" It is a form of erotic play that takes place when one voluntarily gives up some or all of his or her power and freedom to another for the purpose of sexual excitement. For most practitioners, it is a kind of chocolate frosting on conventional (vanilla) sexuality - an enhancement and expansion of, rather than a substitute for, genital sex.

To many of us whom indulge in its pleasures, it is a cathartic sexual game based on fantasy, a sensual psychodrama. Moreover, the term describes both activities and relationships. Those of us who take part in BDSM games in it many forms usually discover that these activities intensify the emotional interconnections between themselves and their partners." Warning:
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7/2/2012 5:33:59 AM

Had my first meeting with someone over this site. Have to say, very good experience! It was a last minute roadtrip and was definitely worth it. It's incredible to meet new people outside of your usual circle of friends that are so in tune with your views.


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jullet45
 
 Age: 34
 London, United Kingdom