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I am a submissive male who lives in the Arlington, Alexanderia, DC area and I enjoy, among other things, spanking and ass play. I enjoy receiving marks and wearing them proudly for the next couple of days. I have learned that I enjoy when my ass is stuffed. Although I enjoy these things I do not want to jump into playing. I want to get to know someone before we start playing. I would like a relationship but even if we are play partners I would still like to know more about you than just your kinks. I would like to have chemistry between us and have some similar interests besides just kink. Although I enjoy kink it is not the only thing in my life. I have other interests and friends so I do not see this being a 24/7 type of situation. I am not even sure if 24/7 is practical. I would like to find someone that would eventually want a relationship (although I don’t want to just jump into one) but who also understands that this is just a part of who I am. I am also looking for friends so if we don’t click on a relationship level I would still like to be friends. You can never have too many friends in the lifestyle. I would like to find someone who can hold a normal conversation in public, someone who understands that there is a time and place for kink and when hanging out with friends, family and co-workers that is not the time to talk about spankings and whips. Although I am submissive respect and compassion is big for me. I respect myself and others and expect that in return. If I submit, it is with the understanding that I will be treated with respect and dignity and my submission is viewed as a gift, not a right. A little about me that doesn’t involve kink. I studied computer engineering for 2 1/2 years at Georgia Tech. I loved the math and science but once I got past those subjects I realized how much I hated the actual job of an engineer so I switched my major to history. I love reading and learning about history so you can find me watching the History Channel on television. I was in the Navy before I went to college and enjoyed my time in it and I am still in contact with some friends that were on the ship with me. I enjoy playing or watching most sports and I enjoy playing cards with friends and family.