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Traditional and not so traditional...to blend these two worlds is my goal. I am searching for a woman who enjoys both the traditional aspects of what that used to mean in a relationship along with some "kink" (a word I don't particularly like, but it is accurate). I am a dichotomy...I very much enjoy the vanilla aspects of being with one special woman-- her companionship, her feminine vantage point, etc. -- but also have my flip side of enjoying using her roughly, perhaps slightly (note slightly, I am by no means even approaching hardcore...though that is also a relative term) sadistically. Humiliation, objectification and even degradation have their places at their appropriate times and can even provide the foundation for the D/s portion of the relationship. But that in no way means one cannot equally enjoy soft caresses, holding hands, a gentle kiss and much laughter. Ideally, I would like long term...but that is a goal and the voyage can take many turns and twists so you never know what will happen. Age is not a particularly strong factor for me: a mature and older in mind than her years woman in her 20s or one in her 40s or 50s (provided they have not not been too worn down and discouraged by life and the people who populate it). You needn't have the perfect figure and my view of that may be quite diffrent from other men. Larger BBWs are probably not for me....but certainly women who are height-weight proportionate or are 20 or 30 or maybe even 40 pounds over are just fine and can be extremely appealing. I like women who dress like women and enjoy the femininity that goes with a skirt that swings and a dress that shows a little (or a lot, depending on your age) of thigh. With the right woman, I am true romantic but also a master who can turn 180 degrees when in that mode. I deliberately did not list preferences, likes, hard limits, etc. That is something to talk about and explore. Come and talk to me...let's see if our roads come together; happiness only comes in twos.
jeifer
 
 Age: 27
  Massachusetts