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Been on this site, now, for a little while. It has, to say the least, been quite an education! I know that not all of the members of this site are phonies or idiots. But, they do seem to be the ones who use a shotgun approach and just say HI or ask stupid questions of just about everybody else. I understand human nature, so I am not really disappointed. Without using the "fancy" word, I will clearly state that I am drawn to, intrigued and aroused by intelligence and a sensible lack of inhibitions. Not so that I might feel inferior but so that I know I will be challenged. I would sincerely like to find the woman who might have a good idea of how to put my willingness to good use for her own explorations and pleasure. Who wants the opportunity to totally express her most imaginative and kinky forms of control. Though I say I am bi, it is not because of experience but because I accept this as a very basic kind of service that I can not resist. So, I am also receptive to contact by a couple or maybe even a very understanding male. I'm older, mature and in reasonably ggod health. I am now single but was with a woman for many years who became more and more uninhibited sexually though I pretty much deluded myself into thinking I was not submissive. I know! In other words, she was creative and experimental, passionate, loving and increasingly dominant. It seemed easy and comfortable for us to suggest, discuss and try new things on a regular basis. She did become very dominant. I'm here to offer myself to a thoughtfully curious, creative and sanely intense, dominant woman - or, maybe a couple? You do not need to be experienced since I'm starting over. I can not claim to be "trained". But my eyes are wide open and I am receptive to all of the possibilities. I am not well endowed - slightly below average at best, though long-lasting - but I strongly want to serve, please and, maybe even suffer for the person(s) who can be as respectful as myself. Whatever your desire or fantasy might be, I will do my very best to please. Just limit your actions to keeping me in one piece and out of the emergency room. Thank you. I am a good friend, more long-term than casual. I have both the desire and the time to pursue this. After all - if not now, when? Looking for an easy kind of friendship and companionship with plenty of trust so that I can relax and have my limits stretched, never think to say NO and be a true source of pleasure and fulfillment. To completely submit, I need more than just regularly scheduled play. I am not simply seeking to submit and surrender. I am hoping to find something that is also rare and wonderful. Hope you enjoyed the holidays. Please note I do NOT respond to two word, or two sentence replies. At the same time, I can only laugh at those who assume the dominant role. It must be earned.

1/12/2017 10:32:18 AM I want to thank those who have responded to my profile. I appreciate hearing from anybody, flaky or sincere, who takes the time to write more than just a few words.  I've been asked about my limits.  I know I have not been very specific in my profile.  When I was younger, I was part of some pretty hard activities both painful and kinky.  But, I'm much older and all of that was years ago.  I can still consider almost anything but I know my joints would not take a weekend of harsh bondage or an evening of suspension.  Even if I am not skinny, my butt is not very well padded so I'd have to gain back that tolerance.  The same kind of common sense would apply to other parts of my body.  But, I would react well to firm, patient re-training. It is, after all, why I have placed this profile.