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I have a vivid imagination and a warped sense of humor. I'm emotional and sensitive, silly and playful. I love taking good care of a man I love and respect. I am 5'6, blonde hair, blue eyes. I'm casual but definitely a girly girl. I'm fair skinned and blush easily. When I have a good Dom in my life I get thinner, always. Seriously. Right now I need to lose about 40 pounds. I'm a very light drinker and a non smoker. Ice cream is pretty much my biggest vice. My primary bdsm interest is spanking. I love erotic spankings and appreciate an occassional therapeutic one. I think disciplinary spankings are sexy, but I'm not sure I take the concept of them 'working' too seriously. A good, hard spanking certainly relaxes me though and makes me softer and more submissive. I love pleasing and nurturing a dominant man, but I'm not a slave.
For all practical purposes, I'm not 'a' submissive either. I have a strong personality, but I'm not a domme or a switch. I dislike fundamentalist bdsm, and am allergic to slashy speak ("W/we") Ugh! I think the foundation of any bdsm relationship- be it play partners or life partners- is a strong friendship. Mutual caring and respect are a given. I'm relocatable, but would prefer to stay on the west coast (Northern CA, Oregon, Washington). However, I may possibly (about a 25% chance) be moving to the east coast in June, so hard to say. Ancient Chinese secret: I crave a bit of a Daddy Dom. Some Things I'm Good At Making people laugh, writing, creating unique photos, business ideas, trivia, random acts of kindness, hula hooping, accessorizing, communicating Some Things I'm Bad At Being patient, following rules I think are stupid, assembling things with more than five parts, saying “Whoo!”, watching violent movies, resisting sweets, tolerating smokers Some Things I Love Spicy ethnic food, art, amusement parks and festivals, dogs, classes, travel, reading, loud music, flowing water, travel Randomness I grew up in Miami. I'm an INFP; sagittarius sun and moon. Everything makes me cry. I'm kind hearted to a fault, but can be critical. I find humor in almost everything. I have a master's degree but wish I had a better one. I write a lot of fiction and poetry. Countries I've visited England, Scotland, France, Italy, Spain, Austria, Greece, Israel, Germany, Denmark, Sweden (spent ten weeks there in 2005), Iceland (twice, which I suppose could make it Twiceland). Places I want to visit Greenland, Norway, especially Tromso, northern-most college town in the world, Finland, Switzerland, India, and anywhere I can see the northern lights for real. I saw them in Iceland- dancing lights across the sky, but they were all white. Beautiful, but what's up with that? Favorite Places Reykjavik, Iceland
Halmstad, Sweden
Seattle / Tacoma, WA
Cannon Beach, Oregon
Sedona, AZ
Las Vegas, NV
Scottish Highlands
Anywhere on a road trip
Sub space Favorite Movies
Crossing Delancey, Chicago, Sound of Music, Best in Show, Forrest Gump Favorite Songs Layla- Derek and the Dominos
While My Guitar Gently Weeps- The Beatles
Autobahn- Kraftwerk
The Crystal Ship- The Doors
Cinnamon Girl- Neil Young
Catherine Parr- Rick Wakeman
Love Reign O're Me- The Who Favorite Quotes "He who is not busy being born is busy dying"-- Bob Dylan "I carved away everything that wasn't David"-- Michelangelo To make an apple pie from scratch you must first invent the universe- Carl Sagan
1/30/2013 3:16:30 PM

I will probably close my account in a few days. This is kind of a silly place to be looking for a mostly-vanilla, long-term relationship.

12/13/2012 12:43:00 PM

Looking to meet a single man in my approximate age group (45 - 65). If you feel we have enough in common to talk, please send me a message and I'll respond. Thanks.

11/8/2012 7:51:51 PM

No dictures (pictures of your dick)...please

BombMoca
 
 Age: 29
 Columbus Area, Ohio