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Nerdy, artsy, separated white male switch, relatively new to scene?ISO play built on friendship, trust and respect, focusing on evolution, self discovery or kinky, hedonistic indulgence ? I am here on a journey of the self to discover what BDSM means to me. Along the way I hope to connect with good people to share friendship and knowledge. If there happens to be that spark, then also to explore and play.? ? Stumbling across BDSM erotica in my early teens, it struck a chord in me, resonating powerfully. Given the times, being a fringe type person who always had trouble fitting in, I just repressed those desires. I am taking an opportunity now to explore these feelings and desires. I have evolved in many areas of my life but sexually not as much. I seek to explore and learn about myself. ?I am open minded, experimental and love to learn. ??
I do not have a lot of BDSM experience, but get a big charge from power exchange. Bottoming is more intuitive to me. Still, I find topping exciting and alluring. I trend more sensual and service oriented then sadomasochistic. I am not so into pain. While doling out pain does not by itself get me going, I greatly enjoy when it induces energy in my partner. Clear communication before play, safewords, trust and respect for limits are essential elements of my play.?Regardless of the role I play, my partner's satisfaction is a critical part of the scene. ? ? I tend not to play exclusively and expect my partners don't either. ?I am looking more for a \play partner arrangement.?Potential play partners should be comfortable that I am not available for a long term/life partner/emotionally deep relationship. I am separated coming from a marriage that was mostly vanilla with a little bit of BDSM experimentation. I am moving towards divorce but in transition while life works itself out. This has given me the ability to focus on personal growth and have the space and frame of mind to explore kinks I have obsessed about my whole life. ? Geeky, kindhearted, nurturing and artsy - my sense of humor is twisted and dark. As a lifelong nerd I fit most of the stereotypes. As an introvert, I can sometimes be quiet, especially at first or in large groups, but I am generally friendly. I'm interested in art, music, travel, culture, art, science, history, philosophy, art, photography, comics, economics, art, technology and video games and art. By day, I harness my nerd powers for a corporate tech gig shepherding bits across the information superhighway. I keep my kink identity under wraps which is why I blocked out my eyes. If you want after reading this truly amazing profile, message me and I will happily send a full pic.
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I am an artist who works primarily in digital photography and digital art. I am into UrbEx big time but these days don't get out as much as I'd like. I also create synthesizer sounds and ambient electronic music, play piano and guitar. I am always interested in learning about and working in new mediums.
I get out in the local Chicago scene a decent amount. You are more likely to meet me at a munch, slosh or educational event than at a play event. I trend more towards bedroom player. ? I am sapiosexual. ?While I cannot deny that physical attraction matters, for me?chemical, aesthetic and/or intellectual attraction are critical as well. ?
I am big into experimentation. Whether topping or bottoming, I?love to worship a woman's body with my mouth - all over - front and back. ?While it is not a hard and fast rule, generally I am looking for partners who like this too so we both are getting what we want. ?
If you think we are a good match, send me a message! In any case,?I hope you find what you are looking for here. ?
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toughatheart
 
 Age: 19
 Sergeant bluff, Iowa