Perhaps someone can clue me in.  What is the mindset of putting yourself on someone's "admirers" list yet never speaking to them?

Just because CM shows I didn't open your letter, doesn't mean I didn't read it.  Mouse over technology allows me to read before I open which gives me the option to open or delete without opening.  Don't assume you are being ignored if you haven't been deleted.

WOW having a new name on here is akin to being fair game for predatory animals.  Its a little overwhelming.