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looking for a mentally mature, sensual, loving dom. Why no picture in the profile? because I do have a life. Most of the women in these sites expect their subs to be financially independent, able to hold themselves in public, have respectable job etc... and you know what? I agree with them. That's a way a person should be. And while this life style is not necessarily something to be a shamed of, neither it is easily understood by outsiders. Now explain this to your boss, colleague, or worst of all, my mother. Why I might be reluctant to send you my face pic even if we talk? No, I'm not that ugly. I have nothing to hide. But before I really know and trust you don't expect me to place myself in such a vulnerable position (see above). True, building D/s relationship is, to a great extent about vulnerability (surprisingly, on both sides, if you do not understand that you are not a real dom) but this kind of exposure should come only after trust is established. a little about myself I'm 5.10, dark hair, green eyes, light complexion and average built. I am college educated (masters degree) in what education institutes describes as the fields of arts and science. I have been living in NYC for the past 10 years and while I did have some, hmm... well, interesting relationship, I'm new to this scene. So, what am I looking for? For me D/s is about needs fulfillment on both sides. More then anything it should be about love and trust. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a "bossy bottom" nor do I confuse roles here. But I do want to feel loved by a dom. Some people seems to exclude sex from the equation. Nope, not me. This is all about sex and sensuality, only sex is a whole lot more then intercourse. I'm into obedience, education, humiliation, punish and rewards, role playing and whatever we can come out with but I do expect you to take the lead and set the course. Why I won't do your dirty laundry? Nor will I clean you house, walk your dog, fix your computer or build you a spaceship that will fly you to Mars. This is not my idea of D/s relationship. I believe there's a difference between D/s and simple abuse. What kind of person am I looking for? I'm looking for a mature, maternal, sensual and loving dom. No, I'm not into adult baby or diapers stuff. I'm into strong authoritative LOVING women who are into this for fun, not as a business. I love women of every color size or shape, whether you are a tiny slim Asian or an ample African (or an ample Asian or a slim African). But I do like people who takes good care of themselves and are D&D free. Do I have limits? Of course. Plenty. Every sane person should have. (Even as a dom I wouldn't want to deal with someone who doesn't have limits). I'm not into any kind of mutilation, permanent markings, any pain above very light and body waste. Of course (should I even mention?) no animals or underage people. Every act must be done in a safe way and with the full consent of all participating sides. Last word I will happily chat with anyone and everyone. The goal is realtime but I might want to take my time with it till I feel comfortable. Or I might just rush to you, it really depends how things will turn out.

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4/3/2008 8:21:24 PM
Alright, so its been a while since I last checked in here and I was thinking, hmm.. maybe it?ll be a good idea to check on my profile text as I?m known (to those who know me in the first place) for making these horrible spelling and typos. And of course, what was I thinking. So I tried, I really tried and I hope I managed to fix at least most of ?em. Feel free to point any mistakes you find. You really are doing me a favor. Now, on a more serious level, on my original profile I missed some points and as I find it more entertaining to add things in the journal that is what I?m gonna do (how else will you be able to tell that I?m evolving here). So, this little piece of common sense came from a profile I cannot remember where I found but it immediately clicked. For my list of limits I now add anything that have to do with either my biological family or my professional colleagues (nope, not into blackmail stuff). Both groups I choose to leave out of my sex life. (You probably could figure that simply from reading my ?why no picture? answer in my profile but I just wanted to clarify) I truly hope I?m not becoming a ?prima-donna? sub here. I?m really not the type. Actually most of my friends tend to say I?m a sweet guy (most of the time). I just try to be as accurate as possible in an effort to minimize the inevitable misunderstandings that always seem to hamper human relationships. Love to all. I promise I will write more soon.

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slaveangel123
 
 Age: 31
  Colorado