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i seek a Sensual Mistress to build a relationship with. i will not submit to just anyone, as i believe offering my submission is a gift, not a right of the local Domme. i am not interested in paying "tribute" or visiting a Dominatrix. i seek reality. Being a 24/7 slave is not reality. Being Your friend, lover & submissive for as long as a relationship can last is reality. In my daily life and among my circle of friends, i am generally regarded as the "Alpha Male". I make the decisions & take control of most situations. i am a natural leader. However, in my private life, i long to surrender this control freely to my true Domme & make Her life easier (i.e: have Her favorite dinner ready for Her when She comes home from work, have Her favorite music on for Her pleasure, hand Her the TV remote control, etc...). i pay attention to details. i am well educated. i am a professional. i can think clearly & make rational decisions. i'm not a doormat to be pissed on. i can hold an intelligent conversation & i also know when to shut up. i am not into feminization. i am not married & i do not have any children. i am not interested in men or having any physical contact with men. i do not want a long distance relationship... so i'm not interested in submitting to anyone more than approx 25 miles outside the NYC area. i am not a financial slave or the piggy bank for the emotionally unstable. This does not mean that i would not financially support my true love & shower Her with gifts during our relationship. It simply means that i'm not paying Your rent in exchange for a spanking or permission to jerk off. Trust, Honor & Respect goes both ways. i'm happy to send a non-pornographic pic upon request.
8/7/2013 11:04:42 AM

For the last several months I've been going to local BDSM Community events at an established dungeon in NJ.  I'm quite impressed by the "normalcy" of the folks attending.  No BS, no hookers, no wanna be Dommes.  Just everyday people hanging out & "playing" safely & consensually.  Wish I found out about this place sooner.  if you want details, please message me.

5/26/2013 2:10:35 PM

 

The Male Submissive’s Creed.... 


“I am creative, courageous and honorable. I have many strengths. I have power, intelligence and wit.
I use these qualities to empower, protect and bring happiness to others. I joyfully surrender them to she who knows and cherishes their value.
There is no greater deed than to give oneself utterly to another.
I offer myself in heart and body to my Mistress so that I may be fulfilled by meeting her needs, and that she may expose me to the very core of my being, learn my strengths and weaknesses and teach me to better know myself.
My self and my strength and my love are hers to call her own, in honor of her beauty, her wisdom and her strength, which mirrors and enhances my own.
I serve Her with honesty, valor and trust. I avoid putting myself first, but not at the expense of my identity. I seek always to clearly communicate my needs and my fears to Her.
I am her champion, her warrior, the guardian of her honor - as she requires. I will defend her to the uttermost limits of my strength but, standing before her, I lay aside all defenses. I offer Her my trust and respect, and I have few gifts more precious than those. When we journey alone together, she recognises my needs and, when she takes me to places I have never been, protects me from harm.
I ask her to lead me in turning my weaknesses to strengths, so that I may better serve her. I ask that she protects me from harm, and surrounds me with her warmth and guidance when I am faced with my darkest self.
I look to Her, to have the wisdom to know when to push me to grow, when to teach me discipline and when to show me her gentleness and mercy.
I trust Her to heed my voice and views, to nurture my love and desire for her; to approach my failings with humor, compassion, and firmness as necessary for the good of us both; to bring shape and meaning to our lives.
In return, I offer Her all that I am; in joyful and complete devotion.”
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4/15/2013 7:25:02 PM

i just don't understand why it's so hard to find that special someone who i can can look forward to pleasing all the time... If She's out there, i really wish She'd let me know...

sexydamik
 
 Age: 44
 Ocean City, New Jersey