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All I ask is for one woman to be my special girl... to share my love, my heart, passion, fantasies, romance, travel, and potentially my life... but there is a catch... I am a wild sexual freak and any woman who wants me must match my level and expectations of sexual pleasure. You must have a true desire at heart to explore sexuality at the level of a dirty kinky slut, without actually being a street whore. If you're fantasized about how much fun it could be to fuck like a porn star, without actually being one then you just might be that sensual, sexy, seductive woman I've been waiting all my life for.
My words, the raw emotion, my pure uncensored thoughts presented in this profile are not shared lightly. This profile has been a work in progress over many years. Designed to not only share the details of who I am, who I am seeking, what I desire, what I expect, what I have to offer, but it's also established to bluntly provide the various expectations and processes I have created in the pursuit of finding that one very special woman I've been seeking to become my partner in things more than making me blow a hot load of cum for her pleasure and mine. This is not a game, but a serious and very honest approach to find a glorious wonderful woman who deserves to be celebrated and treated like a princess. While my approach is very unique and some may say overkill, it's one which has been proven to work after being tested, refined, consulted upon and gone over time and time again with trusted friends and past girlfriends, most of whom I am still good friends with.
Clearly there are plenty of "men" who desire or claim to be dominant or seek a submissive for the simple fact to have an excuse to use, abuse and treat women like trash. Those men are the ones I would like to teach a few lessons to; normally reserved for long prison stays. For me, dom/sub play is for the higher level of sexual connection allowing more intense and enjoyable pleasures to be shared. Beyond owning the pussy of my devoted submissive, I expect the rest of the connection to be the same as any other standard or traditional friendship/relationship.
Life is much more diverse and deep than discovering how many ways I can get my cock off. While I am dominant and expect any woman who desires me to be submissive, I am not looking for a dysfunctional head case that needs to be abused to feel wanted or appreciated. (But if you are functional at giving head, that is a trick I do appreciate)
Let's Find Out If You Are The Woman For Me
I do demand someone who has a high level of self-respect, self-awareness and comfort level with her body, sexuality and has an honest and true passion for life, and living it to the fullest through orgasms obtained in as many ways possible... If you need to spend the first hours, days or weeks going through the process of having me build up your self esteem or confidence enough to even start considering making things real, please take care of your issues and check back with me later.
To make things easier for you to decide if you are the type of women I am seeking I will share this; I love women. I love boobies. I love hot wet pussies. I love soft skin, sexy eyes, and luscious lips. I love a real woman with hair on her head and smooth pussy ready to be fucked. As long as you are a real woman, with all your parts and you are in proportion in every aspect from your head to your toes and your intellectual and emotional state of being is within sanity standards and most importantly you have a healthy, not crazy, sense of self confidence, self respect and sexual awareness, then you have the basic qualifications I am seeking to start. Of course, every man has preferences. But anyone who goes through life expecting to find that ultimate dream partner, all they are doing is setting themselves up for a lifetime of hurt and disappointment. In summary on this point; If you are a woman who takes care of herself and is a sexual freak like me, we have a wonderful starting point.
Please keep in mind, even in connections and relationships on this level of intense play time; it takes the two of us to make it work. More importantly, to make it fun and if possible... more exciting than anyone could dream or imagine it could be. I understand I have unique and high expectations. I also know I have much to offer, much more than I am willing to share in an initial profile designed to get your attention, grain the interest of the few who qualify as potential matches and hopefully find the ONE woman I need to complete me.
The State Of Sexual Dysfunction
Since I did not grow up in the state of sexual dysfunction and confusion we all call Minnesota; allow me to be very blunt; while my profile may focus on the high expectations of wildly sexual fun, there is so much more to life than having a submissive to serve my cock and my needs. This is an adult dating site focusing on sexual fetish playtime and connections. So I start with the sexual.
I can make friends with just about anyone. I'm not one to have a limit on range of activities or to make judgments on others. The world is a playground and I am fine being friends with anyone who is willing to join me in enjoying life. I grew up in a huge family, my father escaped from Cuba and my mother is mixed German, Italian, and French. I have 3 sisters and 4 brothers, 8 aunts and uncles by blood with 22 cousins. Most of my family lives in Florida. I grew up in the Miami area and suffered through hurricane Andrew in 1992, totally destroying everything our family ever owned. Surviving that, along with having such a loving and caring huge family play a large part in making me the open, loving person I am in adulthood. While I have been blessed to enjoy great success, I would not be where I am without the life experiences which taught me to appreciate the most basic of things. For those I trust and love I give everything I am and I've been lucky to be able to take good care of my family. The lessons of being through such devastation living on the coast were enough to have me move inland, which is why I own a home in Kissimmee, near Disney World. I can be a kid at heart, which is part of the reason I wanted to live there. I am currently living in Minnesota, of all places, because I attended the UofM for business and made invaluable connections with both friends and business partners.
With that history, it should be more clear to understand when it comes to the heart, to love, to finding connections outside of sex and compared to finding connections of dom/sub and intense kink play... it's a breeze to connect, share, love and be comfortable in most any situation. I may have strict expectations in the process of finding my special girl, but the rest of my life is easy going, fun and outgoing. I have no doubt, as I have experienced in previous relationships, if the sexual passion is there and such passions and desires are from your heart... everything else falls into place with ease. It's hard not to provide support and affection to another who makes my difficult sexual dreams and desires come true.
To make things very simple; I love women who love sex. I love women who love orgasm based on the more wild the better. I love women who are independent enough to say fuck the establishment of pre-determined sexual expectation of proper etiquette for how a woman should act. You must be comfortable with the word slut and be proud that you can play the role of slut without fear of being condemned for actually enjoying what the maker has given you... the sexual power to please cock and make men happy aching to fuck your hot pussy... and finding your pleasure in knowing they will be jerking off and blowing loads of cum fantasizing about wanting to fuck you over and over again.
I get so many responses and I am tired of all the games. I am not looking for a group of women to play with; I am not looking to be your fantasy piece of meat. I am very serious about finding one woman who is ready for me, wants me and is interested in something more than using my body. I am going to be very blunt, honest, no bullshit, and no games and tell it all, show it all like it is. You can decide from there.
More About Who I Am
I currently live in the Eden Prairie area of the SW Twin Cities; have my own house with a hot tub and tanning bed. It would be nice to find someone who wants to spend a lot of time with me or maybe even move in. I plan on traveling to Hawaii, Tahiti, France, Greece and Florida and would like someone to join me as my girlfriend and personal submissive babe for everything. I've never been married, no kids, very clean, tested regularly, immaculate personal hygiene and totally drug/disease free.
I have my own company working as a promotion and sales specialist/consultant for internet promotions and corporations. I make very good money, spend just as much and live life to the fullest every day. I have so much to offer, share, give and explore... I need someone to do it all with me.
I am currently without a girlfriend because I know exactly what I want and what I can offer. My last relationship ended because she said she could handle my passion, my desire, my fantasies, fetishes and need for sexual pleasure, exploration and excitement, but she wasn«æ ready. I do expect my future babe to be able to prove she can handle what I desire. I am honest, I love sex... I love wild kinky sex sometimes. I am not into EXTREME kinky or anything sick? So don«æ worry. No potty, no kids, animals, mutilation, or bloodletting pain. But I do love a lot of sex, sometimes kinky, sometimes intense, but always a lot of sex. I am very dominant in an explorative and push the limits kind of way. If you love sex and need a strong passionate man to guide you into intense and very pleasurable sexual fun? And start a friendship, relationship and maybe.. Maybe something much more if youhe the one I am looking for.. Let's start. I need a true sexually submissive exhibitionist girlfriend. The road to long term passion is intense, but the reward is beyond wonder for both of us. Only one spot is available for my heart, passion and desire. The reason for bringing up sex first and pushing the sexual limits? Due to my desires and expectations? That is the most difficult aspect to connect with someone. I can go out on dates, movies, dinner, and travel, spend the night, and go to a game, make out all night? With just about anyone. That is easy. Wild kinky sexual fun is another level of connection very, very difficult to find.
Are you ready?
I want to learn about your passions, your desires, your dreams? I want to push your sexual limits, orgasm with you and find a matching heart beat of passion, lust, love, and pure sexually stoned bliss. I love the idea of my babe getting herself aroused by being a bad girl. Going out and having other men get turned on my babe knowing she is coming back to me to share with me her sexual pleasure and excitement and how she used her power as a sexually wild woman to make men shake. For her to have the confidence, passion and true sexual need to get herself off with other men. Then to come back to me with her well pleased body so I can continue and take ownership of her in the bedroom and show her who her man really is. To know she is willing and able to follow my command to push her limits to enjoy the wild pleasures of being sexually free to explore experiences with others. All this fun is about having the confidence to play the role and enjoy all the fun it has to offer.
If I have the woman I need, there is no need for other women on my part. Sexually you would be mine, I would tell you to play with other men and women... you would find pleasure in having the power and the appeal to make men beg for you, make them explore and come back to me with that power knowing you are mine, you do it for me because I know it's just as exciting for you. Considering the expectations and limits placed on our sexual exploration by society, I know it's strange? But it's what really turns me on. I am not jealous when it comes to the body, but your heart, soul and love should be exclusive to me. As long as there is mutual understanding and respect... all is good.
Are you ready to push your limits? Actually do things you only fantasize about?
The issue I always have when meeting someone new is the sexual wild compatibility. I am a freak and I know it. I need someone who is ready to be just as freaky if not more so. I have many hopes, dreams and goals. From just finding someone to be great friends with benefits to my potential long term girlfriend to my live-in babe and partner in life to marriage IF it ever got to that point.
I have a college education, my own house in MN, one in Florida, 4 cars, 2 hogs (Harleys) 2 boats and I own my own company, make more than enough money to make any dreams come true and want someone to share it all with. Yes, I am trying to impress the hell out of you if it doesn't matter to you, even better. But I wanted to make it clear what the stakes are for me. I am not looking for a woman to use me, for my body or my finances. I want a woman who is able to appreciate everything and is willing to earn it and prove it.
The Bottom Line...
Women will tell me anything to get me. Then when it comes down to it, they don't do it or can«æ go through with it. After years of going through this and being disappointed, I have established a very clear way to find the woman who can match my desires and expectations.
I like to be DOM, but I do not have the time or patience enough to deal with teaching one. I have wasted months with women who say they wish to be my submissive girlfriend, but only do it to get my body... and they get it, till they or I realize it's not going to work out. I am not going to keep going through that. My heart has been crushed enough times falling in love with women who say they can be everything for me.
I know exactly what I like, want, need, desire and expect. The one part of that which never comes across while women are aching to have me... is I love having my babe sexually pleasing herself with others. That is where most women get hung up, they think by playing that role, they become a slut. If it's something you choose and you do it with responsibility and respect, I do not consider that being a slut. A True Slut will fuck anyone... and I don't want a true slut. I am not desperate to get laid, I get plenty when I want it... so I have time to find the right woman for me.
This is not about some crazy lifestyle power struggle Freudian I want to have sex with my mother and kill my father thing. I just like to play and do it with an intensity and passion that is only found in a Dom/sub connection. Not to say there aren't other ways to do it, I just like telling my submissive girlfriend to go find a stranger to enjoy some intense wild pleasure, then come back to be while I take her back as mine... and have her tell me how hot it was to use her power as a woman to make a man explode and give him something to fantasize about for awhile.
Any woman who wants to be my submissive girlfriend and enjoy all the benefits of that role, is required to go through a short period of submissive instruction and training.This is to make sure you are willing, ready and able to explore the role of submissive on the level I expect. This is also an opportunity to prove you want me and you're willing to enjoy being with others. I have 3 friends who have experience with instructing women who are new to the role of being submissive... We are all friends who have the same understanding. I help them in training their subs and vice versa. I will select one of my 3 buddies who I trust to take ownership of your sexual exploration for a period of 20 or so sessions. Each session, you will explore new things and through the training you will have your limits pushed. You will also be instructed in the expectations of being submissive. Your instructor will email a report after each session to let me know how you are doing and he will include photos of each session so I can check out the fun. I will then provide direction in each new adventure. Once I know you are ready to explore anything and everything I enjoy, I will take over and make you my babe. At which time, if you desire, you are welcome to move in with me. At the least, we can start our own adventures and I do hope you will be able to do some traveling with me. Sessions include everything from basic sex with your training master, to being with strangers, exploring threesomes, playing with women, exploring bondage and exhibitionism.
Yes, it's true? I do expect anyone who wants to be my babe to spend around twenty fuck sessions exploring new adventures and pushing limits to understand what you like, what you don't like and hopefully find new things that you enjoy. I don't pick just anyone off the street for such a responsibility or offer. There are three friends, all of whom I have known for ten years or more, who are also dominant and experienced in playing the role. Of course, none of them are as hot as I am  I wouldn't want someone who I want as mine, deciding they want someone else! But don't worry; I will make sure I pick the right guy for your situation. I trust all my friends and they are all decent guys. It's their submissive girlfriends I get to fuck to take the edge off while I am searching of a submissive babe of my own. In this situation, during the first stage; it's not about finding someone who is going to be your boyfriend or lover, it's about having someone I know, trust and respect who I know is going to take care of your needs to help you succeed and is willing to work with me in making it happen. As my babe, you need to love to have sex for the sake of being a wild nympho woman with the desire to get off on the power you have over men. If you are looking to connect and fall in love with the guy I pick to help me, help you... then why would you be doing it in the first place? So I hope you understand and will agree to enjoy yourself and your power as a woman, learning to be the perfect submissive for me. After I have picked your instructor, you will have much more choice in the strangers and other people you will be having sex with. As a submissive, you would be expected to enjoy yourself with men you choose from a pre-approved list of people to play with. Since every connection and relationship is a give and take, of course you can make requests and suggestions.
I do understand there is concern about what happens after that part of it. What if there is no chemistry or connection between the two of us. That is always a possibility, but highly doubtful. First, if you are responding to my words and writing, there is already a connection. I find it very easy to get along with almost anyone and can make new friends very easily. So unless you have some serious issues, I don't think there would be a problem. One of the parts of the instruction/training is to learn how you react and act in different situations and when different situations are presented to you. Through the updates and reports provided to me, I will get to know you even more. Then there is the chance to chat and debrief about how things are going and where your passions, heart and soul are.
One of the things I have learned, you do not keep a good woman in any kind of relationship by treating her like trash. If you take care of the woman you want and make sure she is respected, taken care of and loved, she will do just as much if not more in return.
We can start with the biggest lesson of all in a Dom/Sub relationship. One thing people do not understand is the submissive is the one who has all the power. Your "master" can tell you to do anything he wants... but in the end, it's up to you if you do it or not. Some people think that being the master then means forcing you do it. At that point, being forced to do anything against your true will is considered rape and that is not cool. This all has to be a wild, mutual adventure of intense, kinky sexual fun and pleasure.
I don't train the women who wish to become mine, I don't coddle them, I don't make promises I can't keep. With my position in life, time is valuable and I am lucky to have connections with a few friends I totally trust and are on the same page with all this. One of the things I always hear from women; I am not going to do this till I can have you or meet you first. Which I understand, but if I did that, I would have a date every day and night of the week. I will only deal with women who are serious about becoming the girlfriend I want, need and desire. I do not "meet" anyone until I know they are able to do this, not just willing? But able. That happens by proving it and actually doing it. The training is established to prove you are willing and able to do the wild submissive things that I expect in a girlfriend and to help guide her exploration through training. It旧 like a trial period to make sure you enjoy it as well.
I am sorry, but I have been through this so many times over the past 10 years. I挙e had to get my numbers changed many times, I挙e had to file for restraining orders, file police reports and add a security system to my house. I am lucky in the fact I have accomplished so much in my life, but very unlucky because that makes me a target. If you are not willing to enjoy yourself through submissive instruction with one of my buddies, then it旧 clear you would not be willing to explore all the wild fun I enjoy and expect in a girlfriend.
I have the entire training process setup for a reason, everything has purpose. I am done with meeting women who want to meet me so they can get what they want and in the end, cannot do what was promised or expected. I know, you can tell me you will do it all and you are into all the kinky passion, but I do not believe it till I see it. Most people get into it at first because it's the fantasy exploration of a lifetime. It's something people want to do, but when it comes time to do it, they bail because it's way too wild. This is all about the bigger picture, not just getting a one night stand or more.
Essentially, if you do not have the personal sexual desire, passion or need to enjoy so much wild sex, it wouldn't work. This ad is about my personal needs and expectations and what I can offer, but for you? You should only respond if everything I want is what you want and turns you on. If this is something you would not be willing to do on your own, then you shouldn«æ be doing it for me. You should NEVER do anything just for someone else. You need to do it for you too.
If you like what you read and want to be my girl, you can find me on only one msjor instant message . I live in MN part of the year and in Florida the other part of the year... because that is where I was born and raised and I have homes in both locations.
My Ideal Person: The road to long term passion is intense, but the reward is beyond wonder for both of us. Only one spot is available for my heart, passion and desire. The reason for bringing up sex first and pushing the sexual limits? Due to my desires and expectations, that is the most difficult aspect to connect with someone. I can go out on dates, movies, dinner, and travel, spend the night, and go to a game, make out all night? With just about anyone. That is easy. Wild kinky sexual fun is another level of connection very, very difficult to find. Are you ready?
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