Hi, Thanks for coming to visit my quick description....

i am looking for a single Dom man, but i am open to poly or men in open relationships under the right circumstances. i find i enjoy getting to know the person i play with in a natural way. i think that relationships can take on a lot of different forms and the best forms grow in a natural way between the people involved. Although i love force in the right situations, relationships that are forced in a direction they're not naturally traveling tend to grow negative vibes and fail.

i'm very unlikely to submit to you the first time we meet, however i am open to a good playpartner situation, though my goal in life is to find a well rounded relationship with a base in D/s, but a full life that takes the best from the vanilla world and the best from the bdsm world.

i am a private player. i am not shy and have enjoyed a Saturday night at Oasis a time or two, but i am not going to be your partner for public play, if that's your scene i'm not your girl!

Kink wise i like power exchange, domestic service, discipline, bondage, some mild humiliation, force, soft touches mixed with harsher ones. Kneeling, crying, eye contact, measured fear.

Vanilla wise i love riding my bike on the lake front trails, though it's starting to get chilly, i love hiking, snow shoeing in winter, swimming, yoga, movies, wine, small groups of friends, card and board games, reading a great book in bed all day on Sunday, laughing, kissing, inspiring, cuddling.

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