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| what am I looking for in a relationship and what do I need? I need to be in a relationship with someone who is a strong, confident, Dominant and preferably close to my age, although if the chemistry, EXPERIENCE and maturity is there, who knows. They need to be ready and willing to take the lead and they need to be safe and sane above all else. They need to know what it means to build up and not tear down. I can not do wishy/washy, insecurity or inconsistency nor will I accept lies. Once trust is broken, it may never be repaired.
They need to have great negotiation skills and mean what they say and say what they mean (safe mind fucks excluded). Honest and mind delving COMMUNICATION is a huge turn on for me. They must respect what is important and protect it above all else.
I know...I am asking for a lot...but you know what? I am worth it! In me you will get a loyal submissive/slave who would go to the ends of the earth for you and more once you have earned my trust and respect.
I am straight, although I will admit to being bi-curious. I have never tried it but with the right connection who knows. I will say, regardless of the relationship (casual scene, friendship, etc) due to my extreme shyness I will most likely never just approach someone for play or initiate so feel free to approach me or one of my protectors.
I am not a HUGE masochist but I do love some pain, mixed with pleasure, and I love a good flogging or paddling, as well as fireplay and the violet wand. I absolutely LOVE a good barehanded, over the knee, spanking and any sort of sensory play. I have also recently learned to love the belt and dragon tail. I am a very tactile person and love to feel a variety of mixed senses, especially while being blindfolded. I also love a good mind fuck and a bit of humiliation thrown in as well. And I am also learning that I am a bit of an exhibitionist, once I get past my fears of everyone's initial reactions to my body. I love putting on a show :). And did I mention forced orgasms. MMMMMM
The biggest turn on for me and what draws me to this lifestyle is the control and the ability to be of service. I crave the D/s part of BDSM above all else. If I am in a crowded space I feel most comfortable when i am being of service in some way. I love having my day planned out, and tasks assigned and I love being told what to do and when. For me, it gives me a sense of comfort and safety while turning me on immensely. It takes a special person to be willing to manage that.
I am also very into protocol, respect, and formality. However, just because I will call you Sir, or Miss, or Lady that does NOT make me a doormat so please treat me with the respect that I treat you.
My preferred relationship style is CNC, however, trust needs to be built up first, and foremost.
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