nessinance

I'm a trans woman starting out with her medical transition, looking for something long-term and in time IRL with a dominant man (cis and trans ok!).

I'm a kinky nerd, who enjoys games (video, board, roleplaying...), piling up books to read one of these days, making (and drinking!) delicious coffee, and finding pretty colours of ink for my fountain pens. I'm very single, and live by myself with some houseplants.

I work to a chaotic schedule in a busy profession. My availability can be variable and you'll have to share me with work a bit, but for the right man I'm keen to make it work and will put in the effort to do so. And I'll welcome my maintenance punishment if I occasionally slip a bit.

I'm into a bunch of stuff. Tie me up, collar me, punish me, use my holes, pee on or in me, humiliate and degrade me, use me as your toy. You can also be nice to me! Maybe even at the same time as doing all of the above.

What I want is long-term, lifestyle, and (eventually?) IRL. I want my submission and your ownership of me to weave through our life. I want you to tie me down with your dick on my face and ask me how my day was. I want you to pin me against a wall and ask me if I'd like a coffee somewhere. I want to sit enjoying ice cream on a park bench while you remind me how much you own me and tell me exactly what you're going to do to me when we get home. Make me be your lovely girlfriend and your slave whore, concurrently, consecutively, or even randomly at times.

I'm not looking for hookups or a FWB arrangement. Overseas men welcome, on the understanding that relocating overseas probably isn't achievable for me anytime soon. On the other hand, someone coming all this way to claim me and keep me here could be pretty exciting...

Limits are illegal/immoral acts, permanent harm, scat, vomiting, and medical fetishism.