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I am a competent, intelligent woman, and I am not looking for a ?micromanager?. I do not need someone to tell me how to dress or tell me how to do my job?or what foods I should eat (although eating, or rather, not eating right, has always been an issue for me). I also know that, for me, a satisfying relationship with a man still needs all the normal qualities you would expect to find?.friendship, trust, love, chemistry? mutual respect. But, and again this is just for me, it also needs the thrilling edge of male Dominance, of masculine power; this is what works for me.
I am warm, friendly, funny, and kind for the most part? but I also have a temper that is quick to rise and a very sharp, and sometimes very unladylike, tongue often accompanies it. It is at times like these that the influence of a Dominant male?to sort of bring me back inline?is what I desire and need.
I am sure some people would equate submissiveness with some sort of self-effacement. This is DEFINITELY not how it feels to me. For me, the mode of submissiveness is not something I am in all the time. I am not a slave or a doormat. I do not wish to subjugate my will to another?s 24/7. Besides, life has all sorts of settings. There are plenty of times where the last thing I feel is submissive. I am never submissive at work. I am never submissive when it comes to defending what I believe to be the truth or what I feel in my heart is right, and I am never, ever submissive when it comes to getting the best for my child. However, having said all that, in a relationship, I sometimes want to be made to feel submissive. I want to be called on my sometimes ?child like? behaviour. In other words, when I get too full of myself, when it?s obvious that my temper has taken hold and I?m spiraling ? when I interrupt for the millionth time (hehehe) I want a man who will draw that proverbial line and say?. ?Ok, that?s enough "I don?t want to be the one to always have the last word. I don?t want to ?wear the pants?. I am tired of men who let me lead them around. I don?t always want to get my own way? even when I?m being overly vocal in implying that I do!
I?m not looking for someone to spank me ALL the time?.for every little thing, hell, that would get boring for both of us. Often just a word or a simple phrase?.or even just a ?look? can make me feel almost as submissive as a spanking can. Simple words like?.?If you do that again I will spank you? or, ?If you speak to me like that one more time I will spank you??
Or when I argue or answer back, (which I think I sometimes l do just to test)?.? What did I just say?? or ?What did I just tell you to do?? or ?What did I tell you would happen if you did that again?? orrrr ?Are you interrupting me?again?? (LOL) These words...or simple phrases like these? spoken in a calm, low voice? well?.often that is all it takes to bring me back. its this simple.. is there such a person out there
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