I have been on this website for a long while now. No I have not met anyone off of this website. Yes, I have submissive listed on my account,however, I am not someone to be walked on or taken advantage of. I know what I want out of life, I know what I want in a man. I have reached a point in my life that I do not need a man. I am happy with my life. If I come across that ONE, then I will not walk away from it. I spent 6 years giving up every bit of who I was for a man, the next time I give up any part of myself or control of my life he will have to be worthy of it, worthy of me. Being a submissive is not giving up who you are completely. It is being able to trust someone completely, being able to give of yourself, but not losing who you are. To me a true submissive is one who needs to submit in order to be happy and fulfilled in her life. She needs to submit in areas other than just the sexual arena. Being a natural submissive has little or nothing to do with sex. A true submissive can often be agressive or submissive sexually, depending on what her dominant desires at any given time. She is at her best and feels the most content when she is making her dominant happy, whether that entails having dinner prepared by 6 p.m., giving her dominant a pedicure, or submitting to sexual bondage. I am not implying that a true submissive does not enjoy bondage or sensual pain, she may or she may not; as I said, it is not about sex, it is about needing to please her partner in order to be fulfilled. |