Since I'm pretty new to all of this, I'd love to learn more about how to make things as mind blowing as possible for the person dominating me.

If you are a man, understand that I am in a relationship and will not meet you in person, though I'd love to talk.

Also, meeting in person carries a lot of risks. A poorly punctuated message consisting of one sentence probably won't entice me into taking those risks, especially if you have a penis. I'm not meeting up with anyone I haven't talked to for a while. I have to feel damn near positive that not only can you get me off, but you will refrain from killing and eating me after.

I might try dominating someone one day, because i'm curious about the feeling, but nothing turns me on like a sadist enjoying my pain.