Let's see here... I'm quite the exhibitionist. I really lack shame in public about most things, yet it doesn't keep me from blushing.

I've been in and out of the Seattle BDSM community since 1997. I'm often the person my friends go to for information and advice concerning the BDSM realm, however I am not as active in it as I used to be due to monetary and transportation restrictions.

I am a naturally dominant/mothering/bossy female who really needs to hang out with self-confident, unpretentiously dominant people in order to experience the submissive side of me. I also appreciate people who are comfortable and secure with themselves, whether they be submissive, dominant or any other color of the rainbow. I truly appreciate the human interaction and I do not judge quickly unless I am dealing with someone who does not understand the concepts of respect, boundaries, communication and etiquette and most importantly, informed consent.

I'm Irish (among other things) with the temperament and sense of humor to match :) and can be one of the most caring/compassionate people to be around... however, I am just as equally intense in all my other emotions as well... and that can hurt. I am not an intentional bitch unless I really don't like you, and I will make that very clear from the get go. I am very communicative yet have trouble coming out of my shell at times.

I have an interesting character quirk in the fact that I have narcolepsy (and yes, we DO sleep around, lol), hence why I have trouble coming out of my shell at times.

Some of the things I'm into are: knife play, sensation play, bondage, psychological, training...