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Done. Finished. Heart Broken for the last time. I'm not up to this lifestyle. Y'all take care.
About Me
Howdy! :)

Okay, let's start with the "must haves". It will save you and me time. I have an MA and hope to earn a second one within the next four years. Why do I start with that? Because there's a mindset that tends to go along with having more education. So (and I apologize ahead of time, but here goes), if you don't have at least a BA, please, don't contact me. I tried marrying someone with only a HS Diploma. It was a disaster. He didn't understand me when I talked about Art History, Music History, the Symphony and the Ballet. Now if you can tell me the difference between Goethe and Sartre, Monet and Manet, Prokofiev and Bach, Baryshnikov and Adam Cooper? Go for it. Intellectual discourse is a large part of what I do.

Oh and if you're married? Please look elsewhere for a lover. I want only friendship from you.

I didn't love dogs and cats until I was the parent of one (each). They were just 4 legged creatures roaming the earth. Now I watch their antics on a daily basis and giggle.

I didn't enjoy swimming until I was a competitive swimmer. I didn't enjoy art or music until I took art and music history. What does this tell you? I like trying things and some of the time I end up enjoying it, loving it, living it.

I want to be an OT. What's an OT? Ah, that can be your first question when you contact me. I have watched too many friends retire or leave the military and implode.

I'm very German in my build: I'm not Christie Brinkley. I'm muscular with broad shoulders. However, that robust body holds a very soft heart. I wear it on my sleeve. I'm from Massachusetts (eeek) and from an over-educated family which has made me opinionated. However, I also try very hard to listen to other people's opinions. You may walk away thinking "it's like talking to a brick wall". Nope. I'm a sponge with questions. :)

I'm a liberal born again Christian. I was led to Christ by a Green Beret. There's another story worth talking about. I have a practical love-based faith.
First Date
Coffee (or caramels - watch Good Will Hunting) and talk. Lots of talk. If you decide that my good manners and sparkling personality are pleasing to you? Let's go for a hike. I dislike walking by myself, but love walking and talking. In this 'burg there are so many amazing places to hike. We can hike with or without dog(s). I used to go to Cheyenne Canyon. I also spent some time on the hiking trails on Fort Carson. Now? I prefer Garden of the Gods. There's a lot of cool geology there. :)

The cool thing about a hike is that it burns calories and then you can go eat a guilt-free meal. At a meal there is always lots to discuss: content, presentation. But seriously, the restaurant you choose will tell me a lot about you. More talk, some giggling, some laughter. You can talk about what brought you to this city and if you're a native? Oh, so much the better. I love the natives in this city. :)

If you decide that there is more to talk about, well, sitting out on a patio is always agreeable. Herbal tea or drinks (obviously mine will be non-alcoholic.) Doesn't matter. Watch the sun set and the lights come on. I am a visual person. My memories are all pictures in my head. Help me make some new ones. :)
6/28/2012 1:48:46 PM

For guys on online dating sites: Your penis is not that beautiful and does not have magical hypnotic powers. Sending a picture of your penis to a woman you just met online will not turn her into a ravenous sex fiend. It'll make her giggle at you, mock you, drag you over the coals to her friends and complain to me about how there are no good guys on online dating sites. The fastest way into a girls bed is NOT by taking off your pants. Talk to her. Woo her. Make her feel special and sexy and wanted and wonderful. As a straight guy you HAVE to do the work. Sorry, it's a fact.

 

 - Michael Fiore

6/11/2012 11:32:09 PM

Mr. T?

 

I really like you. I understand that you've been hurt. I'm not planning on hurting you. I will give you as much space as you want. 

 

ms. t

5/30/2012 7:58:16 PM

This is a journal.  It is just random thoughts written at the height of frustration. Don't take it personally.What I want most is a hug. Just a hug.  Nothing terribly complicated.

Another one bites the dust Another one bites the dust
And another one gone, and another one gone Another one bites the dust. 

My cat just used me as a teeth sharpener. Note to self: if cat returns with right front leg covered in blood, wrap cat's head in a towel before cleaning cat's leg.

I just LOVE my life. NOT


 

5/29/2012 5:17:12 PM

arrrrrrrrrrr so you wanna be a bunhead...  gym? walk dog? pretend to be impossibly strong? yeah rrrrrriiiiiiight.

5/1/2012 8:49:04 AM

 Karma strikes.

4/30/2012 7:57:44 PM

Looking for a friend who wants to give me a hug and hold a hand.   You want to know more? Read my journal.  Otherwise? Move on.

4/28/2012 8:16:02 AM

I give up. I really really give up.

4/20/2012 5:53:51 PM

Don't admire people too much, they might disappoint you.

Calvin "Cal" Jarrett

, Ordinary People, 1980

3/22/2012 3:43:49 PM

When one prays, one always gets an answer.  It might be NO or maybe.  Keep that in mind when you pray.  

He does listen.  Sometimes the answer is wait.

Sometimes the answer is: child, you're setting yourself up for pain. Knock it off. 

What do I want? A friend. Just a down to earth, honest friend.

Life teaches you sometimes.

 

3/15/2012 11:36:48 PM

Read my profile.  

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There we go.  I have earned a Bachelor's and a Master's degree. I am not the type to sit around the house all day.  I'm sorry. I tried that. It didn't work.  I ended up separated anyway. So if you're looking for a full time slave, nope, not me. If you're looking for someone who will worship you and who loves to work out (and I mean LOVES to work out), I'm your girl.

lavenda1
 
 Age: 33
 Las Vegas, Nevada