One thing you probably will guess is that I can be a smart ass. While not always well recieved it generally means that I like you cause otherwise I tend to be fairly well reserved. Believe it or not I am rather shy by nature, I love to talk and listen about equally (depends on the drinks and the friends). I was raised rather ecclectically so I love everything from the opera to car races and anything in between. If you have a question just ask I promise to answer as honestly and as in-depth as possible.

My Ideal Person: Have you ever had that experience that half terrified you but at the same time drew you in. You wanted to run away screaming but instead you stopped and moved a little closer. I am looking for someone who can help me find that. I want to know I can trust you at the same time you terrify me. I also want a guy I can talk with outside the bedroom. I'm not looking for a long term partner (open to one) but there is more to life than sex- even great kinky sex. I want someone who can be a friend as well as a sadist. A man with a sense of humor, a good mind, good hands, and is fun to talk with. I don't want a perfect man though, after all i'd be bored after awhile and so would you. However, a genuinely nice guy with a very wide dominant streak would be readily appreciated.