Created to engage with like minds who are interested in D/s dynamics that encompass both mental and physical aspects.

While I gravitate to a minimalistic, pragmatic lifestyle, I am still a fan of the arts and the finer things in life.

To expedite things, here a few personal insights:

- I am a big guy (18“ neck, 50” shoulders and size 36-38 pants) with no beer gut, I am a firm believer in staying active by hiking, diving, mtn. biking, daily exercise all ensure a healthy kinky lifestyle.

- I love incorporating kinky twist to everyday life.

- I firmly believe that arrogance masks deficiencies. Self promotion and constant use of foul language signals a lack of imagination and refinement (colourful language can be a big positive in the right scenerio). I am a firm believe in correcting and I have no patience for those who enjoy testing boundaries and patience.

- I enjoy high protocol and follow a convention learnt in early 2000’s whereby caps are used to refer to a Dominant and lower case letters are used for submissives. Although some suggest this pretentious, I beg to differ and believe it simply a way to avoid confusion. I never write Me with a cap when discussing vanilla topics.

- Discussion on the roles and responsibilities for both Dominants and submissives always interests Me. I enjoy discussions on how to address personal faults and failures without harming the well-being of a Kinky dynamic.

- Discussing additions to one's bucket list always interests Me. I have crossed off: swimming with sharks, travelling in Europe and SE Asia, eating at Le gout du noir, visiting burning man, and walked on an active volcano. My current list includes creating the perfect flat white, circumnavigating the globe in a catamaran, photographing the mimic octopus in action, mastering mediation, making the perfect single spoon desert, new age rigging, mastering personal organization, and overcoming my fear of snakes.

- love good music. My Spotify playlist includes Ray LaMontagne, Supertramp, UB40, AC/DC, Beattles, Sammy Davis, Blue Rodeo, Andrea Bocelli, and artists from all genres. I also have a separate playlist for intense kink.

- not one to use labels or debate the underpinnings of kink. What is one person’s submissive is another’s slavery and Dominance is no more a gift than is submission. Each relationship is its own entity with expectations and outcomes and am firm believer in “live and let live” as well as that the government has no business in our bedrooms. That said, I am a clear believer that kink is not a safe place to embrace horrendous activities and ANIMALS, KIDS, UNSUSPECTING BI-STANDERS ARE NOT KINKY TOYS OR PROPS.

If you have gotten this far, you might have surmised that writing is not My strength and grammatical accuracy sometimes takes a hit when My ADHD acts up. I find proofreading incredibly difficult as I miss My mistakes unless I revisit My words after some time. It is a challenge which I have but is not an excuse for bad grammar. If you find a grammatical misstep, please pass it along as I appreciate constructive criticism.

By now, no one will mistake me for Rodney Dangerfield or Jerry Seinfeld. I love to laugh but mostly with friends and family and not while discussing My D/s interests. If you are up for some dry and understated humour, feel free to offer the olive branch of friendship. I have been told by some that I am quite funny. Beside that, one cannot have enough friends especially those friends who appreciate all aspects of your being.

100% Dominant

94% Owner

92% Master/Mistress

91% Voyeur

90% Rigger

89% Degrader

78% Daddy/Mommy

77% Primal (Hunter)

77% Sadist

69% Exhibitionist

68% Vanilla

34% Non-monogamist

30% Experimentalist

15% Ageplayer

5% Primal (Prey)

2% Masochist