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Pan Female Mistress, 50,  Westbury, New York
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Where two people consensually and voluntarily agree to a power relationship in which one assumes total responsibility and the other yields to that authority. The defining element of this Total Power Exchange is the deliberate construction of the dynamic, in which one person assumes some degree of psychological control over the other. Simply put, these three words – Total Power Exchange - describe the giving over of total control to another person in a given or agreed situation. This means that all decisions are made by that person, and it is absolute - that person has the final say. If it was not absolute then it would not be a TOTAL power exchange. Many people think of Total Power Exchange as being only in a long term full time relationship but there are other instances where there can be a TPE between two consenting adults for a limited time – for example in a play situation for an hour or two, or perhaps an agreed number of days or weeks. However, most TPE relationships are 24/7 D/s relationships, meaning a Dominant and submissive or slave live together – not necessarily as a couple though this would be the most common scenario.












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 5' 8"

 189 lbs






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