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msfunshinebear

Basic Info
I am looking to connect with a select few who are active in the community here! If u dont go to muches or events, no need to bother! It will show me your actually into learning, educating and better who u are! I want to show a light, bubbly personality and kindness that we all deserve and all should be treated with the up most respect, even if I am just meeting you for the first time, unless you do something unforgivable!

I am looking to build roots, make lasting connections and maybe if allowed help the community to grow! I very much realize this is a very ACTIVE community here in ABQ, but I do hope that in due time I do get invited to the several groups that are here in ABQ that are by invite only!

However by saying this, I am not demanding, its more of a wish and if I am not invited then it was never meant to be and I do hope to attend public events and munches here!

Beauty Has No SIze, If Your Know What That Means, Then You Will Know Who I am Right Away! I am a 30ish female, who has always been a female, but I dont really know if I am a switch, submissive or dom, or anything in between! I havent figured that out yet, maybe in my lifetime, I do hope!

I very much believe that in life, time and people are precious! I believe we all have this one life, one chance at this life, in this body, personality and everything! Be who you want to be, be comfortable in the skin and size you are!

No matter how different you are, the sooner you accept who you are, others will follow! Whatever your kinkfetishlifestyle, do not be fearful of what others think!

We all our not here for validation or approval of others, we are all here to live the life we are destined and meant to live!

That was a total ramble but I feel strongly about this and felt like it needed to be said!

Friend Requests
I am a very private person and will never post public pictures or videos online of myself and I will only add people I have met in real life and that I can vouch for the nature of who they are and alike!

Lastly I am working on a picture of who I am and what not in the near future that will be available for friends only! As someone recently told me A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words, so I am working on it!

I do not just add people to add people, if your that contunie on!

Follow Requests
If I follow you there was something that caught my eye and I wanted to follow you, so I guess you could take that as a compliment!

What I Seeking
Passion, Warmth, Love, Caress, Acceptance, Understanding, humility!

Animal Lover, Always Learning, Exploration, Seeking Real Ness and A Family That One Sees In Fairytales!

Open Minded, Foodie, Trust Takes Time and Needs Understanding, Driven in both work an togetherness!

Understanding That I Am Not Perfect and That I Have Been Abused, I Want To Feel, See and Understand LOVE! It will take me time! Patience Is A Virtue!

Other Important Details
I have been interested in the kinkbdsm lifestyle since I was a teenager, I think when I was 12 I came across a book about bdsm and soaked it up like it was suppose to be something I was suppose to be apart of!

Ive been volunteering at bdsmkink conventions for the past 12 years, but honestly I really have no experience every playing with anyone.

I tried to be a submissive to a few older gentlemen when I was 19 everything was fine until it got time to play and then I was all of a sudden sent home as I reminded them too much of there daughters, which is fine by me, when I think about it now!

I have done some domination but not in the typical role, I have done some CBT, some smothering, squashing and trampling, but I dont even know if I even consider that domination.

I really dont know where I fit into the bdsmkink lifestyle, but I just like being around people and being in the company of non discriminating people who are accepting and loving and I guess that is why I am here!

Just looking for events to go to in the area and new friends for now, but I am seeking real life people, interactions and adventures, I am not really interested in online or being in an online relationship.

Please note I will not meet you at your home, my home or a private setting for the first several meetings! We must meet in a public place, we could go for coffee or a meal. We could go dutch, or you could buy (which would be unheard of for me), at this time I am not willing to pay for both of us, just sick of being used to take care of everyone else. I felt like that really needed to be said, not trying to leave this on a bad note, but I needed to be honest there. But dutch is always a good way!

We could do something basic from like bagels and coffee, or we could go to your favorite place to eat in ABQ, lets get to know eachother, over several meetings! If your willing to meet at kink events in the ABQ area, you will automatically be given a high rating! LOL But I will need others to tell me about who you are, please dont just attend one and then say hey lets play. Nope, not my cup of tea!

If you have questions, thoughts, concerns I am more then willing to respond to questions or other info that is needed, but please remember I have a life first and foremost and will get around to responding, if it takes me a few days, please do not send demanding messages, please just be patient!

Lastly if you take the time to write a heartfelt message, your profile is filled out, and that you have more then the ? as the photo, even something you like or your into, you will get a real response back!

If you choose to have a blank profile and ask me the same question you have ask every other girl except you put my name where the last girls name is, then I am really not interested in your time, your basic conversation or your non uniqueness!

Newest Nickname given to me at Leather Fiesta, Ms. Personality. I dont know if its true. I guess you will have to meet me to find out!

Thank you for stopping by and reading my profile! If you do have questions, concerns or alike please feel free to message me!

Thank you in advance!
jesse1
 
 Age: 29
 London, United Kingdom