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Science nerd and kinkster, exploring my own inner space.
I'm looking for local play partners, not anything online. If you'd like to be friends, that's great, but I don't play online as it doesn't do it for me. If you send me a one-line message and you aren't local, you'll almost certainly be ignored. Women on this site are typically inundated with messages. I don't have three hours a day to look at profiles and sort through all the one-liners that I get. I understand that you're sick of sending out message after message only for most of them to get ignored, and that sucks. Just know that a little extra effort can go a long way towards getting a response from me.
Long known I'm kinky, haven't explored many of my kinks, finally signed up, I think you know how this starts, yes?
Now for the more specifics. . . I'm a polyamorous, pansexual switch. However, since I get all my subby needs met with my current relationship, I'm not looking of a Dom except as a friend. For the moment, I'm looking for friendships and more casual relationships (I'm being pretty passive about the looking, for now). My job and school take a huge chunk of my time, with rest and time with my primary partner taking up almost all of the rest, so I don't have the time or the energy for adding a secondary to my life. I would, however, love to find some regular play partner(s) to explore some of my fetishes with.
I'm a switch, though I seem to skew towards being the Domme. In most cases, I tend to slip into the dominant role, but some women just seem to flip me right into sub mode. It's a chemistry thing; I really haven't figured it out yet.
I'm curious about quite a number of kinks; there's so many things that turn me on in my head, and I want to see how many of them work in the real world. I have some experience with a number of others, though there is still so much room for me to practice and improve my technique.
In short, so much to explore!
What do I want from you?
To start with, let me quote Quinn (http://gardenhose.thecomicseries.com/comics/19) "This isn't porn. This is real life. Submission is more than a list of fetishes." Domination is more than a list of fetishes. Kink is more than a list of fetishes. I can pretty much guarantee that the way I experience getting spanked is different than they way you experience getting spanked is different than the way I experience spanking somebody is different than the way you experience spanking somebody.
None of us are doing our kinks the "wrong way" - though some of us may be doing stupid or harmful things - because there is no one "right way." Feel free to warn me if I'm doing something stupid or harmful, and feel free to disagree, but don't try to negate my own experiences.
So firstly, come to me with an open mind.
Secondly, have a sense of humor.
Thirdly, if you're looking for a play partner/a dominant/a relationship, take some time and get to know me first. Our fetish lists may have a surprisingly large overlap, but that doesn't guarantee chemistry and compatibility. Also, each relationship is different, and different people who seem very similar can have very distinct kinds of relationships with me.
Hard limits: true nonconsent (including individuals who don't or *can't* consent), scat, vomit, involving non-consenting participants in explicitly sexual play
Soft limits: extreme body-mod, breath play
Aside from these limits, there are a lot of things that I would work up to and/or would only participate in with people that I trust deeply and have established a long relationship with. For example, I am a switch but I am not looking for a dominant partner. I find submitting to be very difficult and it requires a lot of trust; therefore, it's something that I am more likely to find as an outgrowth of an existing relationship than in a new relationship.
And as much as I'd love to have a houseboy to do the laundry and be the guinea pig for all my evil experiments, that is a huge step to take with anybody; even if I find a candidate, that level of commitment will be a long time coming.
If you've read this far, congratulations! You get 1 (one) internet cookie! Drop me a message to redeem this offer.
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I wouldn't have this problem if I were a Japanese schoolgirl, I bet.
Every few weeks, I'll do laundry really thoroughly (everything, instead of just a load or two), and every time I discover that I can't close the drawers on my lingerie dresser. Yes, a few years ago I broke down and bought a dresser (vintage or antique, with gorgeous inlays!) just for my lingerie and socks. It was that or have a hamper perpetually full of clean laundry with nowhere to go. And now it looks like I've got too much for that.
I just really like lingerie and panties and socks and stockings and, and, and. . .
Especially with me getting into vintage/retro sets and fully fashioned stockings, I need to start getting rid of stuff. That or stop buying things. . . nah!
But like I said, if I were a Japanese schoolgirl, I could just sell all my old stuff instead of having to throw it away. Ah, well, I'm not in that part of the world and I'm nowhere near being a schoolgirl anymore.
Time for a bigger dresser! |
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| Age: 26 |
| Labason city,
Philippines |
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