MrDdy

Here is my collarspace "workflow".

I hide almost everyone. If I am intersted in you, I message you and then instantly hide you. If you don't respond, I don't remember. 

Why? Because frankly I'm not into mind games. If you see my message and view my profile, you either like me or you don't. You message back, 

we start a conversation. Easy peasy.

Stop saying your submission is a gift. It's not. 

It's passive, how easy it is to follow, how easy it is to obey, how easy it is to lay there and take it. That's not a gift, a sub RECEIVES dominance as a GIFT.

Being Dominant is work. It requires thinking, it requires obtaining supplies, it requires pursuing. It requires training, it requires connections, it requires money. It requires control, it requires having a way with words. 

Don't flatter yourself to think that being a sub is a gift. It's not. There are way more subs than there are Doms for good reason.

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