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I am a positive person. I don't like negativity or overly dramatic people. I travel a lot. I am not married. Never have been. I don't have any kids unless you consider my Siberian husky a child.
I've never had very high expectations from this site. I don't like munches, or the kink scene in general. Puts a bit of a wrench in the whole kinky thing doesn't it?
I am a sadist. Control and domination comes from that but I wouldn't call myself a daddy or a dominant. I find most dominant types are just insecure.
I am not insecure, in fact, I am very secure with what I am and who I am. You should be too. You shouldn be proud to be whatever you are. Run with it.
I find most of the good kink relationships I've had are with women who are in control in high-stress work environments. Then they come home and need to be that other person. I'm not saying it has to be that way.
I want a stable person who I can set goals with. Those need to be both in and out of the bedroom.
I don't pretend to be someone I'm not or put on a convenient persona because it might get me ahead for a while. I'm genuine and you should be too.
I don't pass out my pictures to just anyone. Both facebook and collarme are devoid of my face. I am not hideous, just private. Too many people give away their privacy without really thinking it through in my opinion.
I like smart people, but if you think you know everything, or you never say "I don't know," than you're just going to turn me off.
I don't really prescribe to one political affiliation or the other. All politicians are equally useless. That doesn't mean I am not aware or informed, but if you're a cheerleader for one side and you don't think then shame on you.
I can rub certain people the wrong way. I prefer the people that like it like that ;)
I'm a creative type, in that I make my living in a creative industry.
My dog is my family.
I eat well, take care of myself, and I don't drink.
I don't care if you drink, but don't expect me to go to bars or clubs. Not my scene.
I have my own life and friend group. You should too.
Everyone on here talks about how they like intelligence and I guess that is good. I like people who are aware. Intelligence is great but awareness is divine. Being smart is something you can put up on the wall and point at. "Look my IQ is..." but being aware is constant work and it keeps you honest.
When I grow up I want to be a polymath.
I'm a bit of a hobo. Washington is my current base of operation. That is going to change soon. New York, California, Texas and Vancouver, BC are places I frequent. I could change my base to any of the above. (As I write this I am preparing to drive across the country.) I understand most people can't just bounce around. I respect that, but sometimes I have to go all Maya Angelou or Truman Capote on it. It's just who I am.
I am not into short term hook ups. As some writer whose name escapes me once wrote, "I've puked in that toilet before." What I want takes time to develop. That's not to say I am not interested in meeting and talking to new people. I live for that, but don't expect me to start pinching and probing you on the first date. Also means if I send you a message I might just be trying to talk to you. (Bums me out when people actually respond but don't want to talk because of geography or distance.)
I hope to hear from you.
Ps. Gay men, married women, or women with boyfriends need not apply.
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