I have had only one Mistress before and though now she has moved on that she found a sub local to her, I cannot thank her enough for introducing me to chastity.

 

Hesitant at first, I soon realized that it meant the true meaning of giving up all control to her and it was a wonderful feeling. But that was only the beginning...

 

Just after a man cums, he feels exhausted and is ready to sleep. This is not because "all men are pigs" as most women on here would like us to believe. The brain works along with the body's defense mechanism to restrict further sexual urges so as to save the remainder of his sperm. 

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex)

 

Hormones are working so that he feels less interested in what she is saying, lest he goes another round with her. Most men would just like to cuddle and go to sleep. If he is still listening to you, he genuinely likes you. However this is where chastity comes in,

 

It is like being in an infinite infatuation with her without the periodic disinterest right after ejaculation. The chastity lifestyle was clearly a notch above normal sex or maybe I am just another kinky person not interested in the normal scheme of things.

 

I cannot speak for everyone but I ache to be in such a situation, not knowing when she would let me have a precious orgasm, ache to please her and keep her happy while I am chaste and finally be so happy that I could kiss her feet in gratitude if she let me cum before locking myself back again. For all the people who live the vanilla lifestyle, you take a lot for granted and are clearly missing out. This is why I love the fact that I was wired to be a submissive.

 

I have a cb 6000, now all I can hope for is to find someone who enjoyed the control of chastity as much as I enjoy giving it up :)