not sure what exactly i am looking for ... i know i am submissive ... i like to please my man ... i dont understand women who try to be in control of everything ... i do want to be respected especially in public and with friends and family ... but in the bed room that is a whole different ballgame ... i do have two kids ... they would never know that their mom is the submissive type ... they need to be able to respect me ... so then this just gets more complicated ... lol ... would love to talk more and see where we stand about all this ... i am not the type to jump into anything ... i have to know you are for real ... i am not into married men that are just trying to find a way to cheat on their wives' ... that is so uncool ... and i am not into one night stands ... or just causual sex ... this is about way more than just the sex for me ... not that i don't like the sex part ... it is just not the most important thing ... i don't like the cyber sex thing either ... i want to meet a real man that is looking for a real relationship ... that is willing to accept me with my kids ... i am worth it to the right man ... i promise ... but to the wrong man ... you will just think i am just another bitch ... i am not going to just jump into a relationship so don't expect that .... this is way to important for that