7/14/13 Still waiting to see what happens, but I felt compelled to post this new pic. Primarily because I love it so much and I hope y'alls enjoy it too. xo

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7/16/11 Quick Update, my Sweets: I believe I've finally found my soul mate. Sorry for my recent absence on this site, but my time has been occupied in others ways (coyly smiling). I wish you all the best and I will try to update my journal on occasion. Best!

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I discovered my submissive ways just over a year ago and I'm interested to learn more from other likeminded individuals. I work in a high energy field that requires me to be in control much of the day and I love what I do and I'm also really good at it. In the past, I had a tendency to take the lead in most personal relationships, but I've recently found such release and freedom when experiencing my submissive tendencies with someone who has the respect and adoration for my hidden desire to please.

In most respects I'm about as vanilla as they come or so I outwardly appear to be. I like to travel, I like to go out to fun restaurants for food and drinks, and I enjoy hanging with the gals. I took up golf not long ago which has become a new passion of mine. I love movies and anything that has an intellectual, dramatic, psychological spin keeps me riveted. I'm open to all sorts of new adventures from hiking to scuba to white water rafting though I draw the line at bungee jumping or other activities where risk of death is too high. Great conversation filled with plenty of laughter and flirtatious banter is the best way to spend an evening, but only if it's spent with the right person.

So that's the vanilla, but I certainly come with a twist or I wouldn't be on this site, now would I? I definitely know that I like to be controlled and dominated in the bedroom. In fact, there is something quite appealing about being controlled by a selected other in many aspects of my life given I'm normally the one in control with my work and those I encounter throughout my daily life. Relinquishing that power to a trusted other is delightful and I crave that energy. I also have an inner masochist which thrives in a symbiotic relationship with a proper sadist. I aim to please my mate though I also relish those times I must be disciplined for my misbehavior. There will be more about that should I opt to open myself to you.

I won't tolerate abuse. My consent must be respected and appreciated or I'm done. I also am looking for someone who is genuinely available and I wonder if this is even possible on a site like this. If you want to be with me, then you will need to be open to a relationship with me without outside parties entering into the mix (outsiders only welcome at some other date if invited).

I'm interested in someone who might feed my soul; my entire mind and body. One is so much less enjoyable without the other and I'm very selective with whom I share my time and space. Relationships require trust which comes through willingness by both parties to experience vulnerability. I'm at a point in my life where I'm interested to find that right man in my life to serve to the best of my ability through his ongoing guidance, discipline, and support.