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| Dom. No, more top. But I might dom. Maybe. What I'm trying to say is you ain't hitting me with shit and I ain't gonna address you as mistress. Unless it's a wind up. Or I think it's cute.
I'm 45. Which is nice. I'm straight.
I am still inexperienced. But less so than I was.
Very interested in breathplay, bondage, restraint, struggling. I did think I was majorly interested in tears, but after some discussion and a lot of reflection, maybe not so much. Except in so far as tears signify an extremity of emotion, an intensity of feeling, experience. I know what I mean.
Stuff I like but ain't at all sure if I'm into, not without a lot more experience/understanding/reflection/shit: hitty things, humilation, domination.
Beginning to get stupidly geeky about rope. Everything about it.
I'm not really a sadist - inflicting pain doesn't do much for me, not in and of itself. But as a way of getting that intensity from you, I'll do what I need to do. Within limits. I'll be hugely surprised if I ever willing get involved in the making of holes in a person. But two weeks ago I'd have been hugely surprised at the thought I might enjoy wielding a cane.
I read a lot. SciFi mostly. I don't game, I do work. I don't eat meat, which includes fish, my politics range from far left to whoa buddy you must be some sorta commnist. I like feminists. We're on the same side. Mostly. I love working out how to make stuff. I have a son, who I'm delighted to say is my primary commitment, and it's very rare that I'll re-arrange the time I spend with him to spend it with someone else. I take pictures. I enjoy darkroom work. Sometimes. I spend way too much time searching for the right word. Because it matters.
I've been in a relationship with a wonderful woman up north for a couple of years now. It's an open relationship. We do what we want with other people, openly, and what we have between us two is special. My commitment to her is that I'm not giving her up. That's real easy to get right when it comes to play, and to friendship, and fucking. Anything more intense is going to have to work within and around that commitment.
I don't really think this is PlentyOfStrangeFish, but if you're interested, I'd prefer to chat briefly online to weed out obvious deal breakers ( you're a racist, I'm not a practising wiccan, that kinda thing ), followed in pretty short order by an RL meet, somewhere public, we all know the drill.
I get to the BBB quite often, and will be getting to the odd munch in Brum.
Wups. Almost forgot. Kneel bitch. You will address me as 'master who is lord of all'.
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