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| Is it possible to find a Domme who shares my preference for a relationship that is mild (or perhaps moderate) in terms of bdsm,and fundamentally based on caring, respect, and common interests in life? For me the formula could be High vanilla compatability + Substantial service + Moderate fetishes + Low pain/degradation. I am submissive to a woman but not masochistic - meaning forcefulness and imposition are great but not any significant pain or humiliation. I am also adoring, helpful, reasonably unselfish, and if I do say so a decent and nice person. I like the concept of female-led relationship (FLR) because it seems to incorporate both love and authority in a healthy way - the Domme loves rather than hates and rules or leads for the common interest, and the sub has many areas of strength but feels more comfortable following her lead.
I may not be your ideal submissive in terms of age and physical prowess, but I do have the qualities most Dommes cite as the rarest - integrity, intellect, and following through on promises.
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