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Otherwise sane professional guy with a thing for sexual pain. Been at it one way or another since my teens - not many opportunities to play with others over the years and Northland seems a bit of a desert for this kind od kink so far. Slim , try to keep in shape ( dinghy sailing, home workouts etc), decently hung and up for anything "safe". When I have been with partners I prefer to switch or just sub. I've found men more adventurous and more fun as well as more likely! Apart from my kinky side I relax playing a tenor sax when I can so my total ideal would be to find someone I could play both music and bdsm sex with! That I know is a bit of a pipe dream. I get to Auckland and Wellington from tme to time so how about it? Good to explore new things as well as limits.
Socialbuttrfly
 
 Age: 24
  Massachusetts