Howdy, My name is Sydney

Before we get this shindig started, let me let you know the rules.

The rules

1. If you have cannot tolerate occasional spelling/grammar mistakes, societal appointed physical flaws, non PC jokes, offensive opinions or a strong minded person who isn't afraid to fight back when attacked, then this is not the profile you are looking for.

2. If you are generally willfully unethical towards other people and/or animals, then this is not the profile you are looking for either. I have a zero tolerance for negative people in my life.

Also your definition of consent and my definition of consent may vary.

Regarding the scene and the people I may encounter within it: I first started off as a submissive and have been interested in BDSM for many years now. I became a switch roughly 3 years ago and have not had a lot of practice in being a top/dom. I'm poor, so my collection of toys is also lacking, but I have a few. When I am at a munch or other social gathering, I can be incredibly shy at times, but I really do try not to be. I am currently working on being more assertive socially and I am making progress with time. But I am friendly, so don't be afraid say hello! :)

Regarding gender: I have female parts, but I do not fit the gender binary. I fluctuate. I can be femme or I can be butch, often at the same time. However, If I could get a working penis in addition to what I already have, that would be the bees knees. I also prefer "they/them" Pronouns.

Speaking of female parts, here is mine :)

Regarding my sexual identity: I am attracted to girls, boys who look like girls, flamboyant men, feminine and gender neutral qualities. I however, am not attracted to masculinity.

Regarding what I am looking for: A sexy friend with benefits who has a libido as high as mine.

About me

As far as everything else goes, I am probably one of the most out of the ordinary people you will ever meet. I am kind and sweet to other people by default, but I'm socially awkward and painfully shy. I also happen to be very opinionated and quite picky about who I keep for company. As a result I don't exactly mesh with many people.

I'm a rather artsy person in general and when I find the motivation, I will draw, paint, sculpt, dance, sing, compose music and I love to learn new ways of expressing myself such as coming up with new recipes in the kitchen. I love nature and I love to be around it, therefore hiking, swimming and camping are also some of my favorite things to do. I am also 420 and natural/organic substance friendly.

I also like to blog in my free time about social and political issues. I don't consider myself an activist or much for politics as much as I consider myself an observationalist and a fan of picking apart the world and all it has to offer.

I am always trying to find the balance in everything. I have a high drive to learn new and interesting things. Honor and ethics are pretty important to me. I'm not very fond of achieving the American dream or of modern culture. I am also a INTJ on the Myers-Briggs test. I find a lot of beauty in the smallest of things that many other people don't seem to see. I am also non PC and do not sugar coat anything. I identify as many things and yet don't fully subscribe to any 1 culture or outlook on life. I make plenty of silly faces, terrible impersonations, randomly help strangers with groceries, Keep an open mind to all possibilities and not letting what others think hold me back from doing what I love.

Beauty that matters the most comes from within and doesn't cost a cent. Despite the glamorized photos, I'm not "lady like" or "classy", but I'm not opposed to dressing up every once in a while. I don't have much money. I don't shave because there is no logical reason to shave. I love make up, however I treat it as a art form and nothing more. I don't wear it very often at all. I am also a size 18 - 20 healthy plus sized person. I don't plan on going out of my way to get skinny - my happiness is more important and food is one of the many pleasurable things in this world that make me happy.

I'm also visually impaired, so I don't drive or ride a bike. I have a OCD disorder known as dermatillomania. So no, my skin doesn't look like this without the wonderful aid of makeup and occasionally photoshop. I also have a mix of other cosmetic flaws in which society tells me that I should spend a billion dollars on plastic surgery/products/other needless things for, but anyone who can't see past these things, I really have no need for in my life anyway.